Women, you met your lover online and you fall in love. Condom or no condom when you finally make love?

Question

We are going without condoms because we are deeply in love and she wants to have my baby. I love her so much that I want her to have my baby.

Do you all agree that condoms just flat out suck?

Answer 1

test first and than no condom:)

Answer 2

Each get tested if you are not going to use condoms...C'mon do you know how many frggin STD's are out there... IN LOVE OR NOT...you can still get whatever the other person has got...

Condoms are not bad at all....

Answer 3

I really dont understand these questions. i'm 21 and just got out of a 5 year relationship and guess what? i never ever had unprotected s*x. you know why? cuz i care about my body. and no matter how much i trust someone or how good i think i am about my pills, it only takes one time to **** up my life for a few weeks (ointment) or forever (baby, HIV and other diseases). it's just a condom. i;ve never had s*x with a guy who said, "i was unable to *** because i was wearing a condom" and i don't see what the fuss is over skin-skin contact. i dont want babies or diseases, hence, condoms. when i want one of those, i get right on that. until then, a bit of advice. the condoms will only suck if u look at them like a chore. it should be routine. it's apart of my lifestyle because i dont want disease apart of my lifestyle. we know entirely TOO MUCH about prevention to be so STUPID in thinking that unprotected sexual fun is worth the consequences. brushing my teeth used to suck and i used to hate doing it when i was 5, but my mom showed me the teeth of adults who didn't brush, and i knew i didnt want to be like them. so, twice a day. floss once a day. brightest teeth a girl has ever had. and guess what else. never had a cavity, tooth ache, pregnancy scare, or sexually transmitted disease. and i dont feel like i'm missing out one bit. so, yeah. i think the question is stupid. not u, just the question.

Answer 4

Everyone has AIDS AIDS AIDS AISDS AIDS AIDS AIDS

Answer 5

No God did not create condoms, we did because of diseases like AIDS.We can handle std's now days but AIDS is a different story and unfortunately being in love does not stop Aids.The fact that you never caught a disease is pure luck not because it's not out there. I am 50 and I've never caught anything either and I don't plan on taking chances now so I will continue to use them and if you want to live a long happy life together with your new love I suggest you both  go get tested right away, then use them for at least 6 mos to make sure you are both OK.If it's something you don't think about or worry about go to your local AIDS clinic and see what people go through when they have the disease,it may change your mind.

Answer 6

Are you crazy? Is this a troll? Condoms!

Answer 7

No glove, no love.  

Answer 8

I don't think condoms are worth answering, but I do want to advise you that you should be together at least 3-5 years, before even considering having a child.  Ages late 20's, early 30's before evening considering taking on that responsibility.  First you get married and after at least a year, you begin to raise a family.

All you should be doing right now is enjoying life while you're getting to know each other inside and out, mentally, emotionally and physically.

Answer 9

u shud use da condom first

Answer 10

yep, condoms Suck.. So does Dying from AIDS, HIV, Giving each other Herpes and so on..

Now unless the two of you exchanged RECENT HIV, AIDS test and you know the both of you have been with no one else since then and all the test came back negative.. if that's teh case, then P***k freely.. love has nothing to do with teh lust you two have. Both of you met and want to have a child. Do you kno wher last for sure s*x partner. And vise versa.. yall have to be young. Does condoms suck, Yes they do when your in a committed, manogomus tested relationship. but they the S**t with you dont know someone like you think you do. It's about Protecting yourself. LOVE is not going to stop you from Dying.  

Answer 11

Yeah, they blow, but I'm STD free after what has to be over 300 sexual partners.  That my friend, makes the condom a gift from God.

Answer 12

What are you the Pope or something?

Answer 13

~*LOL*~

over 300 partners... Dang what a w***e!!

I would defiantly say NO CONDOM... only in our situation, that is.  

Answer 14

OMG - you only know this person from online and you're going to impregnate her - she could have been lying about everything she told you and you have no idea if she has an STD.  Don't be stupid.  If it's really love, it will stand the test of time and condoms.  For all you know she could be trying to set up a scam to get money out of you for a "pregnancy".  

Answer 15

I was on the pill so there was no condom use there.

Answer 16

Your right god did make people to reproduce. But if your going to use god and the bible perhaps you should read more, like the part where he says s*x is for MARRIAGE. Therefore making kids for marriage too. Honestly the way people are now a days you have to boil them before you sleep with them. For being over 40 you sound very immature.

Answer 17

The people with STD's thought the same thing and now look at them. If you two plan on having a child then of course you don't need to use a condom. How old are you by the way?

Answer 18

Oh good, an online lover.......you actually have no idea where or who she's been with.  She wants to have your baby?  Are you committed? : Getting married?  or is this just hormonal c**p?  

CONDOMS all the way.  But then again I RARELY meet people from off line........but I think i'm a bit older than you!

Answer 19

And people wonder why it hurts to pee shortly after having s*x with someone they haven't known in person for an extended amount of time (if they are lucky that is all they end up with).

Answer 20

You met online, don't want to use condoms, and you want a babymama....LOL!  You just made my day with that one!

Answer 21

Just because you have been lucky and never caught a disease does not mean she doesn't have one. If you truly love her why don't you marry her and then talk about having children. At over 40 I would think that you could make that type of commitment before deciding to have a baby.Although I doubt that you are over 40 from the terms that you use, "freakazoids" and "freeken paranoid" sound like something a 14 year old would write.

Answer 22

First, I don't know how old either of you are, but you sound VERY young. Yes, condoms may take away from the pleasure/mood, but they are a great alternative to herpes, HIV, Hepatitis, etc.

Out of curiousity have you ever seen someone w/ AIDS?? It is NOT pretty. I think you two need to slow down before you go w/o a condom. A relationship is always full of fireworks in the beginning, but in time the sparks fade and reality sets in. What are you both going to do with a child then??  

Answer 23

Love, marriage, baby. In that order.

My husband and I used a condom and it did not impede our LOVE life.

Answer 24

I think AIDS is a lot worse.

Answer 25

i agree condoms do suck, but i'd prefer both be tested for STDs and HIV before going without a rubber.

Answer 26

I'll go the traditional way, condom.

Yes, they suck but life ca get more suck-er with unplanned babies.

Then again you said she wants your baby so, what can I say but good luck. Are you sure she's clean?

Answer 27

They may not be the greatest for pleasure, however, my answer is definitely use the condoms!

You may be in love, you may want her to have your baby, etc.  However, what you DON"T know is if you are going to feel this way in 18 months...give your relationship some time first before bringing innocent children into the picture!

Answer 28

My husband & I met on line.....we met face to face & courted for one year before we married....we both are old fashioned-we waited until marriage. Yes, he wears condoms....we were 53 and 55 years old...no way was I gonna make the Guinness World Book of records as the oldest mother by natural means....

I wouldn't brag about being foolish, Toots...you might have have an STD and not even know it...many men contract herpes and never have a breakout, and there are other STD's out there too...it's not paranoid, it's wisdom and consideration so unless you've been tested and tested frequently for everything, I wouldn't brag...

Answer 29

I think having s*x with someone that you only know from on-line is not only crazy , but dangerous!!  Why don't you give it some time and actually spend 'physical' time together before taking the plunge?