Women: Besides honesty, what attributes do you look for in a man?

Question

Just so we know what to pretend to be.

Answer 1

Honesty, honesty, honesty and a few bucks wouldn't hurt.

Answer 2

I don't think you'd be able to pretend this but he HAS to be a good cook!

Answer 3

Besides honesty, he has to be strong, sincere, 100 % loyal, have intergrity, must be out going, exciting, respectful, confident and hard working. I am not too picky though. Oh yes, he must be intelligent and have a great sense of humor.

Answer 4

a guy who isn't afraid to hug a teddy bear- because he is comfortable with himself.

a guy who will get down on the floor and play with kids- he will be a good father.

a guy who can cry openly- because he is sensitive and in touch with his emotions.

Answer 5

smart, funny, s**y, intergity, ambition, dollars, gets really hot by me, spiritual, likes, good conversation, understands people and cultures, can experience joy and peace, no drama, likes to be outdoors doing anything, likes to be with me, chill with me, has a job, likes me family, faithful, monogamous, worsk hard, likes working in the yard, chivalrous, attractive, affectionate, good communicator, positive attitude and gregarious, giving spirit, compassionate, visionary, has goals, vision for the future and how to go about getting it, has style, some class, but not a snob, can go from west side bbq to a nice restaurant, likes my friends, likes my cat (or at least fakes it), tall, fit, loves my body and my curves, loves me for who I am, wants a family with me, pays for dinner AND drinks.

Answer 6

Gender

Answer 7

100% devotion to me.

Answer 8

I don't go for men.  The only men I hang around have to be g*y.  (No offense to any straight men, but most of them can't handle just being friends with lesbians, so I just don't even bother.  It's not worth the aggravation).

Answer 9

Self-confidence,intelligence, assertiveness, strength, an ability to take charge.  Someone who has interests and opinions of their own (not necessarily the same as mine).  And an ability to deliver a good hard spanking is aboslutely vital.

Answer 10

I stopped looking long ago ~ so be whatever fake you think will net you what you think you want.

Answer 11

I want a guy that gives me my own space and respects my boundaries

OH ! and I dont want him to tell me what to do ....I HATE that.

Answer 12

intelligence and humor are two must haves

Answer 13

The most important thing is that he has to be funny.

Looks aren't important but personal hygiene is.

He should have some interests aside from family and work.

Sharing some of my interests would be helpful.

He must like animals and have a social conscience.

Oh, heterosexuality is an advantage !

I like older men and grey hair , always have, don't know what that's about.

An excellent and wicked sense of humor is non-negotiable though.

Answer 14

Humor baby....HUMOR.....quite the turn on for me....

Answer 15

$$$

Answer 16

nothing special. just the normal stuff that you find in a decent person. compassion is one thing.

Answer 17

I don't think anybody's completely honest....

The main thing is chemistry and connection, I guess. If it's not there, I don't care about anything else. You can just be my friend.

Answer 18

Sincerity

Kindness

Generosity

etc, etc

Answer 19

I want a man who doesn't pretend to be someone other than who he is.

Answer 20

I love a man that is intelligent♥

Brains are s**y, I don't want a man that talks about shooting a squirrel....or picking mushrooms....................♥

Answer 21

Hmm, a loving nature, helping hands when needed. Not to much, just enough to keep me happy. LOL

Answer 22

they want money....prostitutes!

Answer 23

Protective but not controlling

Jealous but just enough

Sensitive but don't cry

Responsible but not boring

Funny but only at the cost of others misfortunes

Girly but such a man

Intelligent but not cocky

Cocky but not a d**k

He must have a d**k and know how to use it

Answer 24

A sense of humor is essential.

Answer 25

I'm not "looking", but, what impresses me is...

a man who can "hold his own", who is strong, successful and independent, but at the end of the day, feels secure enough with his manhood to let go of that control...be himself...and let me have my way with him ;)

Oh and clean up after yourself, I'm not your mama. (pretend to be neat and clean)

Answer 26

I make sure they're not lazy, just so they can mow the yard and help with the work that a man usually does, mainly the hard physical stuff that I can't do. I like to clean so I don't really look for that in a man but if they cook sometimes that's a plus. Good peronal hygiene is a must. Car, license, car insurance and a job is something anyone that is responsible should have. NO CHEATING.

Answer 27

I like a little bit of mystery, if the guys honest then he's pretty much like an open book.