Women! Please explain to the Men how different we are?

Question

Some men just don't understand! In your words explain the differences, PMS, emotions, mind, everthing but the obvious please! So that maybe they can understand us better!

Answer 1

This is what Feminists have to say about it.

In feminist theory

Further information: Feminist theory

During the 1970s there was no consensus about how the terms were to be applied. In the 1974 edition of Masculine/Feminine or Human, the author uses “innate gender” and “learned s*x roles“, but in the 1978 edition, the use of s*x and gender is reversed. By 1980, most feminist writings had agreed on using gender only for socioculturally adapted traits.

Here's a bit about Psychoanalysis: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Feminist_th...

Also while we're at it Feminists should learn the difference between being a ***** and assertive. And it has nothing to do with pleasing men. http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...

it's your problem not mine.

Answer 2

well.... we ladies have lots of difrent intrests...  an we think with our heads...  but guys seem to be intrested in only 1 thing... they think with u no wat....

Answer 3

-submissive

-nice

-want to make everyone happy

-accepting of different people (unless we're brainwashed by someone)

-enjoy pregnancy

Answer 4

Babe, we know this. Men have been saying this since time immemorial that men and women are different. It's feminist and their ideology that say there is no difference between men and women. They even claim the differences are the result of social learning and not intrinsic biological differences.

Answer 5

i don't think we're all that different... well except for the obvious physical and hormonal stuff

but at the end of the day i think we all want the same things like love, happiness etc

i think the problem comes from the different ways men and women communicate

Answer 6

Sorry to not confrom to your obvious mis-conception that we men don't totally understand  women, but consider this:  How ell, do women understand men: we are not so simple as you suppose, and it would be a fair question to ask why women don't try to understand men.  Perhaps we are more open and honest about who we are.

Sure, you differ, but your aim here appears to be to get men to either pity or excuse women for whatever reasons.

Gold Digger:  If I were to say that women were vapid, somplistic and fit only to perform basic tasks and keep house, you would rightly be offended.  Look around you: evidence that men think with more than our penises is all around you, whther you care to admit it or not.  Your view of men is one that needs fixing, because if you think so ;ittle of us, why on earth should any man respect you?  Perhaps, though, we are more mature: we allow that foolish girls like you exist, and consider you to be of no consequence the rest of the time.  Grow up!

As Capone says, it is men who have no issues with gender differences.  Feminists are the ones who tried first to treat us all the same, and when that failed, they resorted to trying to turn boys into girls, or ignoring us altogether.

Answer 7

Who cares. What we know is that women are apparently feeble-minded (as seen in all the women's help groups and causes that are felt to be necessary)  and need extra protection from society and ultimately the law itself>> this is all men need to understand.

Answer 8

im not really different at all. (i have never had PMS, mood swings or felt period pain so i woldnt know  about any of that)

my emotions are only the same as my husband as i dont get upset about minor things. why would you? life is too short? We dont go to sleep on arguments and i only get upset if the situation justifies it.

i also dont understand the comment about women feeling very insecure. i definitely am not. you are lucky if you have a functioning body and mind and think about children and adults that are suffering or are severely handicapped/disabled.

I believe I am lucky to have my life and dont want to waste it by getting upset or angry needlessly.

Answer 9

I don't get PMS and don't know any adult woman who does.  If women were more emotional than men then it would be women shooting up college campuses, shopping malls and churches.

But its not.

Answer 10

. Weaker

. MOST of the time are more caring

. more emotions

. VERY insecure about themselves

. care about what other people think a lot more then men

Answer 11

There isn't any differences, we can see this when we study different cultres in which 'traditional' westernized gender roles are reversed.

If you have PMS you don't need to suffer, you should see a doctor.

Answer 12

Excellent question and I'm looking forward to some good answers.  :)