Women and Men do you find that there are still things about the opposite s*x that you can never understand?

Question

For me it’s things like… how men can get over break up’s so quickly?

Yet they are also capable of being so totally forgiving, in some cases, it’s a mystery. lol

What about you, is there things that as much as you try, you just say “dam-I-don’t-get-it”….. lol

Answer 1

There are to many things to list. In general I seem to relate more to men than to women. I "get" the way the think about most things. That being said I simply do not understand how they approach relationships, s*x, and parenting. Specifics - Relationships - They talk and act as if they cannot stand even their best friends, but then they are practically inseparable, s*x - how long do you have??? Parenting - they talk and act soo tough but tend to give in to anything and do not stick to their guns with discipline. WHY WHY WHY?

Answer 2

I have no trouble getting women; it's people in general that flummox me.  We are all so deeply passionate about things we believe in, and yet we seem to be incapable of living by the ideals we swear by. It's a huge problem for me personally.  What's up with that?

Answer 3

I don't understand how even the most intelligent and thoughtful men will often put up with, and even participate in, what seems to me like denigration of women, as long as there are no women present. I'd totally call my female friends on it, if they talked about men the way I know men talk about women. It's a matter of my personal dignity. But guys seem to have this code, where it's okay (or maybe the only way) to discuss women as if they weren't people with legitimate feelings. Maybe I just don't understand their way of communicating well enough? Words mean different things to them when they're talking to each other? Anyway, that is something I just don't get and probably never will.

Answer 4

It's because all men are aware of their masculinity, while some women aren't well enough aware that they're actually quite masculine.  Women can't get over relationships because they haven't yet understood that all spirits are masculine, and the only reason women were ever created was for procreation.  All fetuses begin as men, and would be men if it were not for the power of chromosomes.  Once the spirit takes over the body, females become males, and eternal life begins.

Answer 5

No no mystery for me at all. We are not t hat different.

Answer 6

yes,one thing the puzzles me is why do women say yes when it means no.

Answer 7

Why do women think that birthdays matter? Not just their birthdays; my girlfriend knows my neice and nephew's birthday, and knows when my brother and his wife's anniversersary are.  I don't know any of those things.  I mean, it's my neice and nephew, not hers, so why is she bothered?  h**l, I forget my birthday some years.  

I think, on the whole, I prefer not to understand women.  They are so crazy that the day their craziness starts making sense is the day I know it's time to call it quits and retire to a mental asylum.

But atleast I know I don't understand women.  It baffles me when women think they understand men when they clearly don't.

Oh and osthma; "yes,one thing the puzzles me is why do women say yes when it means no."

I think you mean't that the other way around; why do women say no when they mean yes?  I don't know - that's why I just ignore when they say no.

Answer 8

i dont even get my own s*x, infact there are things about everyone that i will never understand

Answer 9

Men will never understand a womans mind!!

and women will never understand a males mind!!

There is so much stuff us males cannot let you in on!!

and im sure this is very vice versa???

Answer 10

I don’t know why it’s so hard for a woman to be quiet for a whole day, without it been the cause of anger

Or why when you are on your own, or in your own space it bothers them so much!!

WHY????

Why do Women think that their feelings equal facts? its stupid. lol, real mad

Or they say “I thought, this or that” when it’s plain and obvious that there was no form of thinking involved with the simplistic nonsense that follows the statement.....

WHY????

what about when you tell them how you feal about relationship with them, and they say "Oh OK, i agree and i feal the same way" then later they are upset when they find out that you ment it for real. lol why?

Answer 11

Not really. I pretty much can understand everything about men and women. It runs in the family. My grandpa was a top therapist in Turkey and wrote a bunch of books on it. He could understand you just from seeing how you walk. I'm the same way.

edit: people who gave me a thumbs down... sorry but it's true. I understand people even if I don't agree at all. That's what the world needs. Universal understanding/acceptance and living an examined life. Also, listening more to each other. But I still understand those that don't.

edit: hit me up on email and tell me something you don't understand about a certain group or whatever of people. I'll explain it.

Answer 12

women are still a mystery to me.

Answer 13

I don't get how some men can't seem to let go of the apron strings.

Answer 14

Yeah.  Like why do men think that they have a cleaning/cooking fairy who comes in when the are not looking and makes everything wonderful.....and that stinky socks do not march in protest of their own accord to the laundry-basket!!!!!!

Answer 15

I dont think anyone has ever fully understood the opposite s*x.

What I dont understand is why I put up with so much manipulation and cattiness just to get some pootytang.  

Answer 16

There are things about particular individuals that I can never understand. I am willing to concede that men and women aren't easily defined/described by a few exclusive behaviors...

Answer 17

i dont get how women cant just say what they are thinking when they are thinking it. they wont tell you when theres a problem, they just "hope" things change. then they get all pissed and leave because nothing changed. they say its because they dont want to hurt the guy  but theyre just afraid of someone hating them.

Answer 18

women il never understand you come from a different planet than us

Answer 19

yea people are complex and gender differences just adds to the complexity.

Answer 20

Women are wonderful except they seem to stay mad a lot longer and can be a little less forgiving

Answer 21

women will never understand men and vice-versa .its just the major fact of life...it is suppose to be and will always be.

Answer 22

No, I reckon that at the end of the day we're not that different :)

Answer 23

Yeah. If you ignore women they are interested in you. If you pay attention to them they are disinterested. It's backwards.