Women ask, "Why is a good man hard to find?"?

Question

Good men are everywhere. The real question is, "When will women grow up and start appreciating good guys?"

Answer 1

because ain't that many out there

Answer 2

Here's a question "why is a hard man good to find?"

Answer 3

I found one! Most guys who I know that are good guys were homeschooled or Christian Schooled. I haven't met many who go to public school and are good guys. I'm not saying there aren't any, I'm just saying that a lot let peer pressure get the better of them. If you look hard, you can find some. A few of my friends did.

Answer 4

lol.........I will agree good men are everywhere.

When do women grow up? depends upon the woman..some at 18, some around 21, most seem to around 25....others never.

I had this discussion the other day with a girl friend...she ALWAYS dates these party guys, players, get drunk every night,   types...but ignores the others.  She was whining b/c her last man cheated on her....and I had married such a "sweet man"

told her to stop being stupid...it didn't go over well.

However it can also be said....guys stop dating the hoes, and gold diggers there are plenty of good women out there as well.

Answer 5

Actually, it's "a hard man is good to find."

Answer 6

Both questions are true.  There are many good men who women ignore because they are not perfect.  There are also a lot of men who are jerks and give the rest of you a bad name.

Answer 7

Well, the majority of guys just want @ss,... Well, thats what it SEEMS like. There are good guys out there, seriously. But some are either 1. Too shy to show it 2. Are playing hard to get  3. Finding the right woman.

So, they are not going to show their "good" side to everyone.

Answer 8

Don't hold your breath.  Stop being so good and women will find you more attractive, that's just the way it works

Answer 9

Good question, women will grow up and appreciate just plain old good men when they realize they are old, childless, and on the road to being spinsters! That's when they will settle down with that chunky nice guy who bought them flowers way back when.

Answer 10

There are plenty of good men.  They're taken - when a woman finds a good man she tends to hold on to him.

Answer 11

Women ask "Why is a good man hard to find" from the perception of a woman and her standards of what makes a good man. I observe some of this may come from experiences including values they were brought up with and ideas they have.

There are women who appreciate good guys and there are guys who appreciate good women.

Answer 12

I don't ask that and neither do many of the women I know.

The feminists I know already have good men.

Maybe it's the non-feminists and anti-feminist women who are having trouble finding a "good man".

Answer 13

Yep, actually.. I know a lot of women that stick with guys that treat them like c**p, over men that would do anything for them.

Answer 14

Good guys are not everywhere, it's hard to find them, because a lot of bad guys make out they are good guys lol...

Answer 15

There are about as many "good men" as there are "good women" deserving them...

You get a "Brad Pitt" when you're an "Angelina Jolie", not a "Rosie O'Donnell"...

Answer 16

It seems like all the good guys are too shy or quiet. They need to get themselves out there so that we can actually find them..... they are hiding.

Answer 17

It really depends on your definition on a good man.Some people just expect too much or just go for the bad boys when the good guys are right there the whole time.They arent hard to find at all I have one.

Answer 18

You think. Therefore you are. Right on!

Answer 19

because they are all aszholes.

Answer 20

i completely agree. whenever i see or hear women say 'where are all the good guys' i think 'look at yourself and wonder why'. because 99 times out of a 100 its her fault. lets be honest here, we are all guided by physical attraction and other factors. some women like guys who are successful, ride bikes, have a fancy car. and thats fine. theres nothing wrong with that. but if a women is gonna date a guy based solely on that, and the guy turns out to be a jerk....then that s**+* is on her.

i hear the 'well bad guys disguise themselfs as good guys'. im not denying this, but somewhere along the line a guy will show his true self and if a women decides to stay with him, again, thats your choice live with it.

ive seen alot of girls pass up very decent men in favour of guys who are quite clearly as*holes. i personally dont care and it doesnt affect me because im not attracted to girls like that. but it annoys me when they start complaining.

Answer 21

Many of us are (male and female) are still controlled by our prehistoric urges. Men desire women who look fertile, and women are attracted to the jerk caveman who can secure more meat after the hunt.

Answer 22

Well part of the problem is some of the so-called "good men" or "nice guys" are often not as nice as they think they are.

From personal experience, the truly nice guys are the ones who don't go around self-proclaiming it.

Answer 23

in order to meet a good man, you have to been in a place where good men visit often. i do appreciate good men, but it is still hard to find them.

Answer 24

I consider myself a good man.  I went to Asia to find women that know how to appreciate a man.

Answer 25

you know, many woman cry foul and say it is a myth, but there are many women that dump on good guys and stick with abusive asses.   I've been dumped by many women i treated well, and the ONLY one I ever had to get a restraining order for was one i treated like total c**p.  I am not proud of that, as I was young and very stupid.  i really don't understand it, but it isn't a myth, as i have witnessed it MANY times.

Answer 26

Amen.  To answer your question, it seems they start doing that after they've been cast aside by about the third studly bad-boy, right up until they meet studly bad-boy #4 anyway.  I've never understood it either.

Answer 27

Both genders are guilty of this. The male version is men who pursue high-maintenance women because they like the look of them, then act surprised when the women turn out to be shallow and mercenary. Big surprise.

Answer 28

I agree. There are plenty of good men out there. Women need to stop seeking out the "bad boy" and give the nice guy a chance.  I did and it worked out great for me.

Answer 29

Good guys may be everywhere . . .but there re no perfect guys.  Every man will have his flaw and that may just be the flaw that a woman will not want to put up with. Being a good man does not always mean being a good boyfriend or husband . . .think about it.

Answer 30

I guess women asks that because, every man that they run into, seems to be morons or a waste of their time with no sense of direction in their life. But I have a good man that I been with for four years, I use to say that before I met him though.