Women..does it hurt ur feelings/self esteem if a woman look better then you?

Question

how does it affect you???......

Answer 1

Doesn't bother me.  Why would it?

Answer 2

No, I am not affected by other peoples appearances. I believe that anyone can be pretty as long as they take care of themselves and believe it. Your thoughts become material, what you believe will come to you-Law of Attraction!

Answer 3

No.

It's not that I don't care at all but it's just that I am comfortable  with how I look. It's a matter of self-confidence and self-contentment. Everyone's unique.

Answer 4

No, you have to be a more secure person! Envy and jealousy get you nowhere.   I may have thought those things when I was 15, but I've grown to be comfortable in my skin and relationships.  I also choose to take the best care of myself as I can by eating well and exercising, so there is nothing that I feel bad about.

Answer 5

All women want to look beautiful and yeah if a woman looks better than them they feel as though something is taken from them.

Be it the looks of men, their boyfriends, even their husbands. This may not matter to them when just seeing a beautiful women on the street, if anything, it inspires them to look like her. But I think in the presence of her male she wants to know she is the most beautiful and it does hurt her when she's not.

Be honest ladies. Too much of this false security.

Answer 6

I've gotten to the point where those things no longer matter to me. All I think when I see an attractive young woman is how she will look when she gets to be my age. Looking good when you're young is easy. What's more difficult is looking that way when you're older. I know I don't look as good as I did when I was young but I still try to make myself look as attractive as possible. I feel that aging is not an excuse to let yourself go.

Answer 7

Whether or not someone looks better than me is all a matter of opinion.  I workout six days a week, and take care of myself, so I'm pretty happy with what I have.  I'm not perfect, but neither is anyone else.  So there may be some women out there who I envy their nice skin, etc., but it doesn't make me feel bad about myself.  I know I've got things they don't have as well.

Answer 8

Uh, no.

I'm not a mindless, utterly incompetent moron, who has nothing but looks.

Seeing better-looking women (the vast majority of women are better-looking than I) has no effect on me at all.

Why should it?

It's a myth that no woman cares about anything except her looks. Only the deeply insecure, and utterly imbecilic feel that way.

Answer 9

No I am bisexual so my attraction to her supercedes my baser jealousies. I found a way to live in love and not animosity through my libido.  It is rather Christian actually in a quite skewed sense.

Answer 10

Doesn't bother me any.  I have lots of friends that I think are gorgeous!

Answer 11

no

it doesn't affect me, unless if she's really good looking i might think 'wow, she's really good looking' (this is in a good sense :-))

Answer 12

If we are out and someone brings up that the girl at the bar is really hot, and thats all they talk about....then yes i get a little jealous. Or if I am allready feeling down on myself(i do somedays) and i cant find any of my favorite things to wear and then some chick at whatever im doing looks too hott to be there...yeah it grates on my nerves a little. But generally...i dont care, especially if i know them. Once you get to know a person, they can be supermodel hot, but you dont look there anymore, you look at how beautiful they are on the inside. But yes i have my days when i wish that the weight i gained from my baby would just go away and i could look like i did before i got prego! lol and all those girls who went back down to their pre-prego size....grrrr im so jealous! lol too many grahm crackers and milk on my part...lol (im only 15lbs over what i was before i got prego)

Answer 13

Why should it? I know I look good.

Answer 14

NO, but it can be intimidating.