Women help with a guy's responsibilities in a relationship!?

Question

If the woman’s responsibilities consists of doing all the cooking and cleaning, the pressing, laundry and the sewing, preparing his bath, as well as checking the water, air and oil in the car, all the while working a full time job, what is should his responsibilities be other than working a full time job?

Answer 1

Other than the responsibility of the car, it sounds about right.

Answer 2

Men do all those things too. Communication is gold. Men can do anything women can do except have babies. You know you are not giving men enough credit.

Sorry for him cheating on you. Not all men are like that.

Answer 3

well first of all girl why you running him a bath and checking that he can do that and for the car thats his job all you should have to do is clean cook and do laundry  and take care of the kids you shouldnt have to work but i guess thats just my man he says h**l take care of me as long as i cook clean and take care of his babies for him sorry but thats my advice:(

Answer 4

lots of things. a shoulder to cry on, someone to listen. look, relationships are hard work. communication is the key. but i dont know the answers. wouldnt be alone if i did.

Answer 5

Well sweetie, I feel your pain.  My day starts at 3:45 in the morning and I'm at work at 5:00 a.m...  After teaching adults all day I come home and clean, that is inside and out.  At 2:45ish I pick up the kids from school and then bring them home to do homework for about and hour and a half, and then get dinner going so that when MY WIFE gets home we can all set down and eat.  After dinner my wife will set down in front of the TV and complain about her day and tell me all about the B--tches she works with. By the time everyone is showered and in bed it is 11:30ish and I can now go to bed so that I can get up at 3:45 again and do it all over again the next day. You know this wouldn't be so bad if my wife made more money than me, she only makes a bit more than half of what I make.

What it is honestly is that we let our spouses take advantage of us because we love them, even though, if you fine a way to even out the responsibility please email. lol

Answer 6

Well, from my point of view, the reason he cheated was that you were so naive and gullible.  You served him well, did everything for him, and asked the very minimal of him in return.  It is not your fault, its part of your raising, you did as your mother had taught you to, to serve your husband and serve him well.  He is the foolish one, to give all that up for a fling with someone who has been around the block a few times.  Instead of asking yourself, what you did wrong; ask yourself, why would you want to be with a man like him?

Answer 7

Duh, girl, he was supposed to be doing much more than he has been doing.  Besides he cheated on you, it's time to move on honey, never mind second-guessing yourself, you did nothing wrong, it was all him, he was a legend in his own mind.  =P

*Had a great trip and a fine time, thanks for everything!

Frosty - She's right, her parents trained her well, but Duh, isn't that what all parents teach their little girls, to learn how to cook and clean?! C - Maybe? Are you kidding, why would he want to, that moke had it made in the shade, Sessy R - Hello?! She didn't say he can't do it, she just said he doesn't do it, there is a difference you know! Girl, what guy do you know that WILL cook and clean, I'd sure like to meet him.

Answer 8

Maybe you guys can take turns one night you cook one night he cooks.Hes a big boy he can prepare his own bath.split the chores in half or take turns

Answer 9

Marriage should be 50/50 but it's not. If both people are working full-time the chores should be divided up equally. Everything should be shared. But that would be an ideal marriage.

Usually the reality is much more like 60/40. But it should be compromise.

PS.

Let him run his own bath. Especially if he doesn't help with anything else. Does he at least do the yardwork and take out the trash? Boy has he got you trained.

Answer 10

When have these been solely the responsibilities of the woman? Oh, yeah . . . before 1963. I figured it was over then.

In a relationship, both partners have a responsibility to take what they need and give what they want, and do the rest themselves. That's it.