am so goddamn sick of being hassled on the street almost every single effing day on my way to work, or while I'm trying to do my clothes at the laundromat, or riding my bike to get smokes from the corner store, or buying a fricking pair of socks at walgreens and being hit on by the cashier. When I get up in the morning and wait for the streetcar, I don't want to answer dumb questions about my relationship status from a stranger before I've had my coffee.
How do you respond to this c**p? I usually give them the finger as I walk by without slowing down, but sometimes I yell “f*ck off†as well. If someone is standing nearby and isn’t being too aggressive, I just say “Go away†or “Leave me alone.†But sometimes they will be really pushy, and they won’t leave me alone, and I’ve got this can of mace and I’m thinking about carrying it with me and just casually taking it out of my pocket when that happens. I’m not scared but I’m just fed the h**l up. What do you do???
By the way, in case you might think so, NO, it doesn't make me feel "pretty" or good about myself. It makes me feel like prey or meat. I'm not bragging. I'm asking for advice on making it STOP. If this has never happened to you you obviously don't live in a city or leave your house or car very often.
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