Women/men what does this mean? Why is he eying me like that?

Question

Guys?This was very disturbing!! My best friend (from childhood) is getting married. Her and her fiance came over my house and he seemed almost too happy to see me! I hardly see her just once in a blue moon careers life ect. He winked at me when she was not in the room. He just kept staring at me the WHOLE time. Everytime I would make eye contact his eyes would light up like a Christmas tree. He is over 40 yrs old almost 50! We are all middle age. I did not make eye contact because i did not want to encourage him and I felt QUITE UNcomfortable. I am happily married and I am in her wedding+ she came discuss the wedding. I am not at all into playing on the side by any means but was VERY TROUBLED.

When I hugged them goodbye, he had a laugh like I was touching something sensitive. I made sure I did not get to close to his body when I hugged. (I Hug all my friends) I just am that way. She also found out she did not have a serious illness.This was also the reason for hugging her.

Answer 1

he must have a crush on you. shame onyour old friend, might be looking to hook up with you.  good for you in not playing  the game.. next time you are around this person  just shake hands, no hugging....  tell this person to STOP IT and grow up

Answer 2

He sounds like a creep, I'm sorry to say. He's definitely hitting on you, which is putting you in a horrible position. I would limit my time around him most definitely. I don't think it would be a good idea to tell your friend unless you have solid proof of his behavior, or else you may have one less friend.

Answer 3

i would keep distance i wouldnt give him any reason to think you like him. (and you dont)

be standoffish

DONT HUG HIM, a handshake is appropriate

dont be alone in a room with him, have someone there or remove yourselve from the situation!

good luck