Women please help!!!! How often do you give out your number and why dont you respond after you gave it out?

Question

ok I always wonderd how often do adult women give out there real number? as a guy when we go to the bar we try and get as much numbers as we can; so I was wondering do you women just give your number out to any old joe are does he have to impress you first; basically what is the criteria for giving out ya number? and why is that a lot of women dont respond or pick up the phone after giving their real number out, ladies please explain this whats the logic behind this???????????

Answer 1

Women aren't stupid.  They know that you all try and get as many numbers as you can and so they see men like this as a joke.  That's the logic behind it, without telling the guy he's a desperate dweeb.

Answer 2

I've never given a fake number, but I don't give out my real number to any guy who asks for it. He definitely has to "impress" me first -- rather, just talk to me for a little bit so I know he's a decent enough guy.

Answer 3

I try not to give out my number to anyone that I don't want to call me. However I have been guilty of doing so for a variety of reasons:

1) He bought me a drink and I felt obligated.

2) At the time I thought it was a good idea, and then the next morning I saw the photos from the night before (ie, "I can't believe you gave THAT guy your phone number!")

3) I was feeling sorry for myself and wanted to be WANTED by someone that I could easily reject.

These pretty much sum up the reasons that most women will give their number out to guys that they have no intention of speaking to again. It's a combination of an ego trip and a sense of obligation, fueled by alcohol. If you want to actually meet a girl to date, stay away from the club/bar scene. Women do not go there to find their Prince Charming (and if they do, then you should stay away from those ones!). They are there to either have fun with their friends or get their egos boosted, and in turn you'll end up with a lot of false leads.

Answer 4

Firstly, unless they know you are calling, I wouldn't take it seriously. Many reasons they don't pick up - they're busy, they're not near the phone.

Secondly, because guys try to get as many numbers as possible, I don't like to give mine out. It just seems pointless. So usually, I'd speak to the guy for a while, see if I like him and most importantly if he's spending time talking to me he's actually interested in me and not in just getting another phone number before moving on. And if we don't get on, it saves time later.

Answer 5

Women don't do that, only girls do.

Also, men don't go around trying to get as many numbers as they can, only boys do.

Answer 6

I personally seldom give it out. I think most women when asked would rather give a fake number than say bluntly 'No, I don't want to go out with you'.

Answer 7

it's about energy and pheromones.  in person, you can assert dominance and actually control their tiny, untrained, unsuspecting brains.  but on the phone, it's more difficult, and when you are not in their presence, they gain more control of their faculties.

seriously though, if you study psychological sensitization, suggestion and energy... and you practice with a clear head and mostly good intentions, you can almost bend people to your will... particularly women.  

(sorry feminists, but it's true.  go ahead and give me thumbs down.)

Answer 8

I would never give my number out to someone I met at a bar. Maybe my fake-name e-mail address, but not my phone number.

Answer 9

i never give my number to people i have just met. i would have to know a guy for a little while before i would give out personal information.

i don't know about other women, but i never answer my phone because i hate talking on the phone. its not personal.