Women tips opinions please a lil advice..

Question

single parent? the momma took off on me no where to be found ladies any tips for raising a kid by yourself...

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me and my boy prince ^

Answer 1

congrats!!! its going to be hard so keep your head up.  you can do this! never ever resent or regret that beautiful baby boy bc his mother ran off.  love and cherish every minute with him because next thing you know their 3 years old and pretending to f**t on everything. yes my sons a charmer! haha Best of luck!

Answer 2

Oh my gosh i have so much admiration for young guys like you!

congrats on your beautiful boy!

just go with what you feel, enforce rules when he gets older and if you need anything else email me ok??

good luck :)

Answer 3

I have so much respect for you.You are doing such a great thing.

I'll come help you hehe any day

Just make sure casue theres not a lady in his life you show him how to respect women etc and maybe have him around some of your female friends.

But I;m sure you can do a great job on your own =D Just follow what your head tells you to do becasue its usally right.

As if some one left when there was such a good guy an a goerjus kid.Thats crazy

Good luck =D

Answer 4

Well you are wonderful! I can't fathom how a mom could leave their baby. It happens everyday but I will never know how. You are already doing a great job you know. You are there and she isn't so you deserve applause! I can't give you an advice because I don't know what you may need to know but I can tell you that before you know it you will fall into your groove and it will just be second nature for you to care for your son. How old is he now?  Goodluck, you are wonderful!  Congrats on your new life!  

Answer 5

my husband had this same problem before we got together just try your best feel free to google stuff and u might want to try reading the parenting books. Now don't follow the books word for word put you own opinions into because alot of the arthors are quacks but they still have some good suggestions and guide lines.  u might also wanna see if there are any groups around u for single parents.  and lean on your friends and family  

Answer 6

Ahh how sad for you and the little guy, my boyfriends daughters mom left when she was 6 months old.. she is now 7 and he has done such a great job!  All you have to do is love him unconditionally and be there for every little wimper and cry.  This happens to alot more daddys then people are aware of, its not only the mammas that have to raise babies by ourselves.. but all of us that have manage quite well.. it is hard at times because there is no YOU time.. everything revolves around the baby.  Make sure you keep a steady job and possibly look into getting some help from DES (gov, food stamps cash assistance etc.)  

There will be hard times VERY hard times, and dont feel ashamed to break down and cry like a baby... we all have.  But you can do it and you will relize it will probably come naturally.  GL!