Women want older men mostly because older men have more money and more experienced in bed? T or F.?

Question

I think women want older men mostly because older men USUALLY have more money and more experienced in bed, not because maturity MOST OF THE TIME. I mean why don't we see more men go with older women ? Cause women wont accept them because of lack of financial security and lack of sexual experience. Why dont older guy think the same with these barely legal girls? But since s*x is mostly up to the man to make it good, the women doesn't have to be skill in bed, since the social expectancy is that men take care of women( like they really need to be taking care of) see doesnt need to make good money, and most men are starving for easy s*x all equal to men in their mid to hight thidoesn't dating even marries 18- 19 year old girls . Even though she's USUALLY not financially secure, USUALLY doesnt know what she's doing in bed. I think most not all men do this cause they cant handle strong women so they get more younger passive women that they can woo easier and/or control per se NOT ALL THE TIME BUT USUALLY. Usually it's the guy that gets controlled in the end though, ,in relationship or after marriage. There are mature women and men of all ages. It's not mostly about maturity it's more about s*x and money not all the time but most of the time. Why do men ignore their partner income and sexual experience and why is it so important to women ? Women want older men mostly because older men have more money and more experienced in bed not maturity. T or F. What do you think ?

Answer 1

I can see where your answer is true, but also where it can be false.  Not all women are materialistic.  I don't care how much money my husband makes as long as the two of us can keep a roof over our head, and our children with food in their bellies and clothes on their back.  

Plus...you never mentioned love or attraction anywhere?  What about those two.  Most people do tend to marry due to attraction..at least where I am from.  

Answer 2

1/2 True on initial question

More $

Dude dies sooner

[She] Has a "daddy" complex

[She] Would rather not work

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Being 40sh and single is great. And I can assure you I don't ignore a chick's "sexual experience."

In fact, I'm betting on it.

Answer 3

The best s*x I've experienced has come from young, broke men.

I'm a bad person to ask this I guess.

I can't stop dating the poor. I have no idea why.

Answer 4

Older men seem to be ready for commitment more than younger men.  They usually have already sewn their oats and are looking for someone to settle down with and cook them dinner.

Answer 5

False.  I have a total thing for older men...has nothing to do with money or experience.  I just think they are HOT...and the idea of someone so much older having interest in "little ol' me" was insanely flattering and a big turn on, and yes maturity was what I had THOUGHT...then I learned the hard way that there is no age that's more mature than the rest, a man who's 54 can be just as immature as a man who's 21 apparently.  Doesn't go by age....goes by the man.  Guys go for younger women cause they're more attractive for them, too I'd assume...I definitely go for younger women but not THAT young..teenagers seem like kids to me and I'm only 26.  It just depends on the man, or the woman...some people are only attracted to certain types.

Answer 6

you can train any guy to be good in bed. i have as i know wht i want and am confident to ask for it. my husband always makes me o****m cause he knows what i like as i told him. we always try new things as well.

he hasnt got money but we are working together towards our goals.

i am 6 months older than him, my mum is 6 months older than my dad (been together 40 years) and my grandma in law was 6 months older than my grandad in law (together 55 years until he died).

my husband is very mature for his age.

not all women want older men.  

Answer 7

Generally speaking, that's partly true. But, my motivation for dating older men was that we had more in common.  

Answer 8

False. I have all the money I want, I see men as more than meal-tickets, I have no respect for people who think dating is about money in any way whatsoever, and younger men, in my opinion, are MUCH better in bed. "USUALLY" and "MOST OF THE TIME" sounds like a squirrely way to be generalizing, and generalizing, especially about people's mate preferences, and especially along subjective "gender" lines, is not meaningful, like debating how many Tinkerbell's can hula dance on Pinocchio's nose.

Answer 9

hey i think urthinking to much into this . but you are lke soooo right me myself i looove older guys!! ONLY i dont like younger dudes....at all.i have no limit. :) but no its not always about money  with me its not my guys broke n hes older n thats why i like him cos hes older and experienced +machure

Answer 10

False. It's usually because they look more attractive and do more 'matyure' things

Answer 11

Only the ones powered by Viagra: NOT ALL THE TIME BUT USUALLY.

Then, it becomes ALL THE TIME.

Fact:  Most often, people choose mates in the same age range as themselves.