Women: what would it make you think?

Question

if your boyfriend of 6 months, still hadnt asked you to fly home with him to meet his family, even though he is close to them, and he asked you to move in with him when your lease is up in 3 months?

2. and how long would you wait for him to ask you, before you questioned him or just left?

Answer 1

Probably lack of fund since travels are so expensive these days. Or just waiting until we've move on together before introducing me.

Since moving in together is already mentioned I'll wait until then. But before moving in I should asked him if his family knew. Then again since he's old enough to live on his own, he doesn't need his parent's approval. It's his life in the first place.

Now if you're wondering if he's proud of you enough to mentioned you to his parents, that's another question in which you alone can answer. (Or this bf)

Answer 2

it's only been 6 months and plane tickets arent cheap!

Answer 3

I'm in the exact opposite situation. I'd say hang in there if you love him. Bringing a new person in is always scary because you never know how it will go. It's very stressful. Cut him some slack and wait it out. If you're living together you'll have to meet the family some time.  

Answer 4

1.  Six months isn't that long of time if your parents live far enough away that you need to fly to meet them. I'd say you should introduce her to them within one year or in your case 6 more months.  

2.  After a year, I would quiz you about it, and if you didn't want me to meet them I'd see a red flag and question the relationship.

Answer 5

Maybe his parents aren't under the impression this is a serious relationship.

And then again, they may not even know about you.

If your b/f is embarrassed to tell his parents about you, maybe he lived in a home where talking about s*x and relationships was taboo.

Or that you had to be married before having a sexual relationship.

And if his parents are old fashioned, maybe he thinks they wouldn't treat you fairly.

Before you move in with him, you better find out what his parents view are on you, you guys living together, and what the long term goal is for you guys.