Wondering why some of the people answering in TTC are inconsiderate jack a$es?

Question

I'm sorry but I'm so tired of some of the responses i get when i ask questions. If I ask for miracle stories about someone who got pregnant 3 days before their period, i dont need a response from someone saying "you cant get pregnant 3 days before your period. what did you expect?"

It's hard enough ttc and not getting the results you want or need. So why do some people here think its ok to answer questions with rude or mean responses??

Many (if not most) of us TTC come on here for hope and to know we are not alone ttc!! I am SICK AND TIRED of rude, immauture, inconsiderate, and selfish jerks!!

TTC is more than enough to deal with.. without jack asses!!

Answer 1

i agree with you.  i'm sure the people that are giving ignorant answers are TTC because if they would they would be more sensitive.  i'm in the same boat with you.  good luck and lot's of baby dust and prayers.

Answer 2

Some people don't instead to be rude, but maybe just honest and i'm sure they dont word things in a nice way. You cannot get pregnant 3 days before your period, your egg is already been long diminished. You would rather people get your hopes set high just to get a heartbreaking BFN? I been TTC for a long time, so i know how you are feeling, but sometimes its better to look at the facts.

There is always hope, but don't get hope and reality mixed up.

Sending baby dust...

Answer 3

wow i feel the same way...it really is an emotional time for TTCers like out selves...but some times u just have to over look some people..how long have u been TTC...i would really love to talk or IM you..good luck and tons of baby dust to you

Answer 4

How do you think the teen Mom's feel? But seriously... I know how you feel. Miracles really do happen! I knew someone that didn't even know they were pregnant until 7 months.. She was 46 and thought she was just going through menopause. Everything is possible! Good luck TTC!

And also... I might only be 19, but I know alot more about TTC and pregnancy than people give credit for. One, I have a son. Two, I plan on becomming a Midwife so I spend a great deal of my time researching the reproductive systems of both male and female. Plus... we are waiting to TTC early September! I'll be 20 in January.

Answer 5

Thats the problem with this site. Its open age, so you get responses from young people that have no idea about pregnancy or trying to conceive.

I try and ignore the ones that just want to be nasty and have no idea what they are on about. Just thumbs down them and move on :)

I also wish you lost of luck with TTC

Answer 6

I'm not TTC but I know what you mean.

Some of it boils down to those people NOT being in your shoes. They don't know what you go through so they don't fully understand. It's not an excuse to be rude though. I'm sorry you're getting hateful answers. Just keep asking though, there are people that will answer sincerely.

Answer 7

I'm sorry people are so nasty.  They are probably bored and miserable in their lives.  Don't let it bother you sweetie.  It is so stressful ttc i know this.  Keep asking your questions and just ignore the ignorant people....Sending lots of baby dust your way!  :)

Answer 8

I'm sorry you've had that problem. It is hard enough to spend every minute thinking about TTC. You're desperate for any information out there. My husband and I have been TTC via IVF. Our first IVF cycle was cancaled. I was so upset. I was curious to find out if anyone had the same experience. I needed to know about a medication, and if anyone had had the same experience on it. Unfortunately, there are people out there who don't know how hurtful they can be. I wish you all the luck!!! Keep your chin up.

Answer 9

unfortunately that's just the way some people are!

they don't understand so they cant possible know how we feel!

just ignore them... its the problem they have no heart feeling or consideration!

i find it sad that they cant understand something that haven't personally gone threw... immature!

rise above it, we all better then them!