Work/boy problem. what to do?

Question

i like this guy at work. i've known him for only a few weeks. we've talked but we don't know each other that well. i was wondering, is it too much if i ask him to hang out or something?i've never made the first move so it kind of makes me nervous. or do you have any other ideas of approaching the situation?

Answer 1

are you sure you want more than just a friendship with a co-worker??? if things go wrong, one of you might have to find another job...

if it is just friendship you are wanting, he may want more physical stuff... be careful!!!

Answer 2

ask him if he'd like to go to lunch/dinner there's nothing wrong with making the first move. be confident!

Answer 3

Give it a few more weeks of getting to know him better, see if he will ask you out.Throw some hints like "have you seen the movie... or have you been to a particular restuarant or hang out".See what reaction you get from your comments. If he does not give an encouraging response, this may mean that he already has a gf.