Work or relationship!?

Question

whats more important to you?

If you had a job that you loved but your partner hates it becuase you're always busy would you leave it for him/her?

Answer 1

Partners come and go. A good job is worth a million women!

Answer 2

work

Answer 3

You are asking for my opinion and therefore I'll give it to you straight and not tell you what you should do.. for me.. my partner is more important than my job.. end of story

Answer 4

i believe i can cut back on my working hours to be with her more ...

Answer 5

MONEY OVER EVERYTHING .

Answer 6

may be

Answer 7

it depends on how much it's affecting our relation.

I believe that a minute spent with my partner while we are both happy is better than hours with one of us is upset about something.

Answer 8

You need to ask yourself, right now which is your priority, work or relationship?

you need to choose one.

Or you can balance between both of those and both of you will be happy.  

Answer 9

noo..I love my husband wayyyyy too much.  He doesn't want me to work anyway.  

Answer 10

if it takes me away from him,then i'll leave it for his sake

coz if i chose this person to share my life with,so he's more important to me than anything else...i'll give him the priority.

you too should decide what's more important for you; your partner or your work.

but remember that once you choose to have a relation with someone, he has rights which you should fulfill ... among which are attention & care ....to say the least.

Answer 11

the answer will be different according the answerer's gender.

as for man, career stability and consistency is important for the family benefit in the long run, even if it seems that it takes the husband away most of the time. but from experience, hard jobs that involve long hours of working, transform after some years of experience to a more relaxing one, as the man is employed in higher ranking, and this promotes higher salary, and less working hours.

i mean it is just a phase for the best of the family itself for the long run. because he is responsible for his future kids happiness and needs.

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for a wife what is more important is her kids emotional security and character development, which involves direct interaction with her kids in their first 5 years.

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the governing factor is the ease of communication between both spouses and shared set of values about success and happiness in LOVE and WORK.  

Answer 12

the relationship is more important than anything .

but work is essential for all humans .

therefore , i suggest that a wife would try to reduce the weight of the job to pay attention to the spouse .

she shouldnt give up the job , but give more attention to the spouse .

Answer 13

yes.. as a GIRL.... i did it already..

but if i was a MAN and the job is my dream job and they pay me well and suits me, i wont leave it,

cause she will have to understand that i HAVE to commit to this job to assure her a GOOD LIFE ..  

Answer 14

well, it depends on how busy you are always be? Can the man-hours be less on the long run, or this is it? Does it pay well? Is there another job that you might love and pays the same?

For me, i always bring family first, if my family needs my time more than my extra money that this job provides then i ll go for a less working hours job. but good jobs are really scarce those days, try to compromise and convince your partner of the importance of doing something you love.

Answer 15

well i'd try to balance between both, and isA my job can be adapted according to what i want "i know"

But if i felt im bust away from him and "me2sara w 7a2o" and he ask me to quit , relationship is more importnat, if i felt he is judt asking me just for CONTROLLING and MAN EGO , work would definitly what i'll choose.

Answer 16

You have to decide which is more important at this point in your life is it the job you love or your partner?  Many women are becoming career girls and choose their job over partners/potential partners this is ok.  if leaving your job would make you unhappy this could cause bigger problems in the relationship and nothing will be able to fill the gap where you job is as usually the children come a long and fill the gap.    If however leaving your job brings you closer to your partner then leaving the job you have that takes most of your time and maybe getting a job with fewer hours or maybe only a few days a week would be better.  

For me i would leave my job for him and maybe take another job with less hours if we weren't in a financial situation where i didn't have to work.  Personally i would prefer not to work i would be really happy to do this and stay at home keep the house clean go shopping and do some baking and cooking and meet with friends to fill my day so i could be 100% there for my partner and when children came along be 100% there for them too.

I look at it this way a job is a job you may like it but there are other jobs you may even like more but is there another partner for you have you found your match the one you really want to share you life with and be with.  

Answer 17

HARD EQUATION

Dunno but my opinion will be so harsh BECAUSE for me it will be crazy to leave my job....I adore working ....

Actually  i won't marry or get engaged to someone who won't accept one of my basics ...which is "My work" Even if he Loved me .... Cuz i believe that the woman must work cuz nobody knows what tomorrow will have for us....and am with those woman who works not for Equalities and so on ...but so as to have the balance in the family ...that both works to get the family or their life grow financially and at least if one of both got sick or there is something wrong with him or her....they will find the other partener working ....so there is a supporting part ....

In other words, for me no engagements or relations or marriage if he didn't accept my principles and my basics from the begining

Especially for me cause i will die if i didn't work as i am so hyper active and don't bear being in home for a long time....

and if after he OBJECTED ....I WON'T LEAVE MA JOB FOR HIM ....WE WERE HAVE DEALINGS AND BASEMENTS FROM THE FIRST SO EACH MUST RESPECT THE WORD BEING SAID....

but at the same time not gonna ruin my life ..hehe but i will ruin it if he insisted  :P ...

If i knew that there will be another better job than the one i have and it will appeal to him so ok ...Why Not?!!

but if he originally refuses the idea of working ...So let him go to h**l

AND there must be a reason and a "REASONBLE" one to leave my work and I think there are no reasons to let me leave my job

If for raising kids .... anybody can ask for taking a vacation from the job she works in ....till the kids get raised well ...then return back....

I know somebody who did so....

Look everything has its solution ...jus men who Complicate things to let u get the feeling of "Ouch!!! how i will do so and so and so " ...They give u the feelin of  "Time out or Game over " ...LOL....although everything is by ur sight and u can get the solution of everything soothly and smoothly without rushing....