Worried about going back to work!

Question

I have been a housewife for the past year and a half and I have loved it. However we just got a new car and things are getting a little tight and so we have been talking about me getting a job. I have an interview next week and I am really starting to worry. My husband works nights and I will be working days. I have a hard time sleeping without him because I always worry about what he is looking at on here and if I am at work I know it will be the same deal all over again. I know it's silly but when he looks at p**n or whatever it makes me feel very unattractive and I feel like if I'm not here that gives him even more time to look at it and I feel he will not want to have s*x with me as much or find me as attractive as he does now. I just want to get over all this and be able to enjoy going to work. Any advice anyone has will be greatly appreciated!

Answer 1

Start working first and if after a month you still worry-

then I think you have only one option: you need to start meditating and learn to control your feelings. Do not let your worries control you! there is really nothing special about going to work, everyone does and you cannot be worried about it so much.

Answer 2

  Girl im in the same boat ,my husabnd works days , and i need to get a job at night.