Worried she wont go with me cuz my scar? help?

Question

i have a scar on my face given to me by an angry ex.

ne way, i met this new girl and i want to ask her out really bad., i dont know if she noticed or if it bothers her, but im worried that it might affect her desicion. i want to tell her its a scar and not just there, y'know. how can i do that?

Answer 1

Dude, if she says no JUST because of that, you don't need her anyway. If you want her to know the story behind the scar, just ask her about her past boyfriends (causally in a conversation) and tell her when she asks about your past girlfriends. Or make some kind of joke about it and make her laugh, then explain it. Get creative and remember, if she's shallow enough to say no because of that, you're better off without her.

Answer 2

just keep it light and kinda joke around during dinner or somethin and be like "haha if your looking at this thing on my face, its a scar from a phsyco ex, not just a weird mark lol"

Answer 3

You shouln't worry yourself about a scar Everybody has marks and blemishes that they dont like it's just a part of you.! if shes right for you then it should't make a difference to her . If she asks about it , just be honest with her shes bound to be curious but it doesn't mean shes put off ! gl xx

Answer 4

As long as your self confidence is good ask her out how you would normally ask any girl.  If she is curious then she will ask about the scar other then that if she doesn't ask then maybe it's not an issue and proceed as normal.  If she is that shallow there is a 15 to 1 female to male ratio in dating you will find another.

Answer 5

Don't worry so much about it. If she's that shallow that she'd pass over you just b/c of a scar, then she's not worth your time. If she asks about it, give her a reader's digest version of what happened. Simply tell her that you were assalted & leave it at that.

The more self concious you are about it, the more you are going to make her nervous & drive her off. Relax.  

Answer 6

dont be ashamed of your scar, they are great storytellers and ice breakers.  look at it as a way to start a conversation or something.  i think scars are better and much cooler than tatoos...maybe she'll feel the same way.  anyhow girls are worried about that, plus u should worry about if she'll like the way u dress, smell or are groomed well. see now i got u thinking about other stuff..lol..oops.

Answer 7

Don't even worry about it, chicks dig scars, seriously.  Go ask her out and don't even think about it, I think you'll do just fine.  

Answer 8

She isn't worth your time if a scar keeps her from going out with you.  Ask her out, tell her about it during the date.  I know that generally you aren't supposed to talk about exs, but I think that this would be a great conversation piece, just not over dinner.  

Now, more importantly, you had an ex that gave you a scar?  Holy c**p.  That's the kind of stuff they put in horror movies, or really bad sitcoms.

Answer 9

Ehh, I have some big fat ugly scars, and my boyfriend likes me :P

It shouldn't matter... she'll see past the scar tissue if she has any substance.

Answer 10

how big is said scar.... we talking 1 cm, or a couple inches...

if she likes you, she'll look past outward appearances