No Passion, No Lovin, No Nada...
Ok, maybe it's not the WORST ever, but seriously, disappointed does not begin to describe it.. Basically here's the deal: I have been 'married' to a beautiful Mexican girl for nearly 3 years and living with her and our boy and working in Mexico. However, we had only done the legal wedding bit and never the ceremony, so I convinced her that if she would go to the US with me (she is very scared about leaving her country), I would pay for a big wedding and the whole bit and then once married 'by the church' she would come up, and she was down.
So, about $11,000 later (all out of my pocket) we had a GREAT wedding in Mexico and we have been talking about our honeymoon in Cancun for months. I bought all kinds of lingere and neat, fun things for 'playtime' (nothing too crazy, all in good fun) and would tell her how excited I was to spend some good quality time with her alone like when we were going out years ago and she would talk about how she would be all mine and gave the impression that it was going to be pretty sexually exciting.
We are now on the last day of the Honeymoon and have done it all of twice, both times being pretty medicore. She seems WAY more interested in going on excursions and seeing Cancun than she is in spending (intimate) time together. I got really annoyed after the first 24 hours and tried to have a good conversation about how I felt , but that may have killed any chance I had b/c it has been kind of awkward since then.
Maybe I just expected it to come easy, but don't get the wrong idea. I have tried dressing nice and schmoozing her in every way I can think of and still she is pretty cold. Things got SOMEWHAT exciting the night we shared a bottle of Dom Perignon, but that was it and here we are with one night left.
I seriously feel really hurt and am kinda pissed. I suppose just like the bride has expectations about her wedding I had expectations about a hot, s*x-filled week in the Carribean with my new bride when it has been anything but that. If things are this lame on our friggin HONEYMOON how much excitement can I expect in the coming years until I'm all old and fat and grey??
So is it her? Shouldn't the Honeymoon be more about having rockin s*x with your spouse before anything else? Or am I overreacting and maybe should be more sensitive to that she wants a more 'traditional' vacation away from the little one?
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