Would You Do This For Your Best Friend?

Question

Ok long story short. My friends husband came to her asking for a divorce because he thinks he's g*y. He has only been with her so she thinks she has turned him g*y. So she asked me to sleep with him to see if he really is g*y or not, and try to help save their marriage.

Help I don't know what to do?! Do I bring a strap on and scented candles?

Answer 1

no just do it with him  

Answer 2

Awww.that's a sweet gesture, a strap on and scented candles. Perhaps bubble bath (floral) would be nice as well. I'd give him a test run and see what you think..it's the least you could do for a good friend. Oh! And please post pics, that really is the only way we can help you. Good luck and I truly hope this helped you.

Answer 3

I've heard that 55% of g*y men were born that way. The other 45% were sucked into it. I suspect he's one of the 45%. Maybe you can suck him back out of it. Good luck. Hope this helps. : )

Answer 4

I swear I am straight, and if you have to come over to prove it, so be it. Bring some beer too.

Answer 5

Do it 4 your friend if it could save there marrage!!!

Answer 6

wow!!! weird question...but making her husband cheat is not the way to go! she just really needs to talk to him about it like ummm the kind of talk where it takes all day. not go to her friends and degrade them to sleeping with them. that's not what friends do! you could easily just give your advice as to if he was g*y or not. does he seem g*y?? is it just an excuse for him to get a divorce?? help her that way. trust me! that will help out a lot better.

Answer 7

This is not something you will want to be involved with. No matter how good of friends you two are, there will be jealousy and resentment from her regardless if he turns out to be g*y or not.

If she is bound and determined to have another woman sleep with her man, have her hire a prostitute and stay out of this mess.

Answer 8

God wants you to wait until marriage.

But if both of you are asleep the entire time, go ahead.

Answer 9

My mom always had a suspicion that my dad was g*y when they were together. I wouldn't sleep with my friend's husband....that's her job. If he is g*y, which I don't think he is, then he will come out when he is ready or when he realizes it.  

Answer 10

One 12 inch scented candle should be enough.

Answer 11

i would just go up to that guy and say are you g*y or not

Answer 12

h**l no

Answer 13

are you married or do u have a boyfriend? how r u going to get him to do that? maybe you should just talk to him... thats a little drastic in my mind

Answer 14

that's what friends are for...right??? i am very disappointed in you that you had to ask on here for advice. you promised me that you would just do  it ...no questions asked. i mean come on...if a man has some problems in the bedroom with me, i know he'll have them with you for sure!!! i just want to make sure about his BFF , jorge.

Answer 15

Don't do it.

Request that they receive professional help. If they really believe in their relationship they'll find a better way to get to the bottom of it.

Answer 16

Tell them to go to theropy. Trust me, you will lose your friend!

Answer 17

i guess it all depends, you might fix it you might not.  you could also ruin it by him likeing you more and wanting to be with you and not her.  its a big decition for you!!

Answer 18

first of all as a friend she should not ask you to do such a thing. that is her own personal problem she needs to deal with. as a friend you are there to help comfort her through this hard time not to s***w her husband. what would that make you? I would never do such a thing.  

Answer 19

Your friend doesn't think very highly of you.  She must think you're a s**t or a prostitute.  I would definitely NOT do this.  The best way for your friend's husband to figure out if he's g*y would be to have s*x with a man.  If he likes it, then he's g*y.  He may just be bisexual.  I am, but I definitely prefer guys.  He may just want to experiment.  They should go to a g*y bar and pick up a guy.  Why up your count when you don't have to.  

Answer 20

No , Do not do it. I believe that your friend has a problem. She is judging her husband for a wrong reason; there should be another reason why he wants to divorce her . there are not so many g**s in this world!!!! People do turn so g**s easily .Wrong judgments often hurt relationships very much.Find a better way to help them.

Good Luck

Answer 21

This sounds like something your friend and her husband needs to hash out on their own without you.  Have you suggested that maybe she could get a strapon?

Answer 22

not really

Answer 23

if you think it will save their marrage then h**l YES i think it would be a good idea if the wife gives u permission!

Answer 24

Great advice (as always) from Byron. Saddle up, Cowboy...time to see if this dog hunts.

Answer 25

Please dont get involved with that. For gods sake, they are MARRIED, and that is a problem that they need to deal with. She should have never asked you to do that.

Answer 26

I don't think this would be the best idea. if you end up sleeping with him and find out he is not g*y it can bring about many problems you wouldnt want to be involved in. in the end it could ruin your realitionship with this friend because she may get mad you actually went through with it. think about it and be smart.

Answer 27

This seems like a very strange request. Why in the world would her husband want to sleep with another woman if he has already told her he is g*y? And, she certainly would not be responsible for "turning" him g*y. He is either g*y or he is not. He may be bi-sexual or maybe this was the only thing he could think of to convince her he wanted out of the marriage. She will know in time if he is telling her the truth and I'm afraid you would no longer have your friendship if you agreed to do this. Another option is a marriage counselor, but, sometimes some things just can't be fixed. I wish you and your friend and her husband the very best of luck.

Answer 28

Well it might help if you do this, but still it might come back and bite you in the butt it you know what I mean. But if you feel it is right ti do so, then you should try to help your friend and her marriage. But if you do have interaction make sure that you are protected. I hope I helped.