Would a guy think in weird?

Question

i am 16 and just wondering i dont plan on having s*x.

anyway im really consious of my body and i really hate it

one of my b***s in noticably bigger than the other and i have strech marks all around the top of my legs and my hips. im not fat but i feel it with these marks they are ment for people who are pregant or fat!

if i go with a guy will he think im wierd for having the boob thing and the strech marks?

Answer 1

No, both issues are totally normal.  Stretch marks are just from growing and fade in time, and b*****s are often different sizes, some more noticeable than others.  Guys don't care one way or another, b***s are b***s to them.

Answer 2

My little sis had the same and had corrective surgery. Go see the Doc and tell him it's depressing you and you'd like to see a specialist.

Answer 3

All woman have one boob bigger than the other we dont notice it i think women notice it more theirselves. As for stretchmarks most people fat and thin have them sometimes they are caused by height or losing weight. Most people have them so i wouldnt worry.

Answer 4

It's normal sweetie. Alot of girls are insecure about there bodies. Your going to grow into it don't worry. And If you want to wait to have s*x then that is great, but if not, your of legal age, and you may, without anyone critizing you.  

Answer 5

the guy you first sleep with should be the one you love and will not care at all about your body he will love you for who you are

i have them on the tops of my legs and im only a size 8 :S

i was worried at first but my boyfriend doesnt seem to mind

everyone will get them at some point in their life .:D

x

Answer 6

A guy would be extremley shallow if he dumped you for these things, and wouldnt be worth going out with anyway! Stretch marks will fade and they wont always be there! You sound like a normal person, everyone has hang ups about there body! If this guy like you for you, then he wont let that affect anything!

Answer 7

no everyone is like that. don't worry!!!! confidence will come when you get abit older.

Answer 8

Definitely not,

it's normal and they acknowledge that.

it won't be what he's bothered about anyway hehe!

Also, try Bio Oil to fade your stretch marks heaps!

Find it at your local pharmacy :)

Answer 9

hey!

i dont think any guy would do so much of research on u.atleast i dont do!

well if a guy would really think of u, i dont think it will be any problem 4 him.

Answer 10

Aww hunni, if a guy is genuine he will love you for what you are. Let me tell you that no pair of b***s match to start with! But if any guy trys to tell you anything bad about you then get rid of him. You don't need it. It's what is on the inside that matters!

Answer 11

not planning on having s*x is a bit abnormal in my point of view , but thats probably not going to stop you from finding your perfect man . & your left boob is supposed to be bigger than your right cus thats where your heart is . + i think strech marks go away ?

Answer 12

A young man probably would wonder about it due to inexperience,  a decent kind person would love your body because it's yours.

Answer 13

i used to have that insecure feeling cuz i have stretched marks and scars and I'm darker in skin but now i got over it. i always thought he will care. i always thought I'm not good enough. i always think i will only open up with my husband because by then he cant run away from me. can you see what's my problem was? i think too much. that's a problem. and now i found out he never noticed. why? because i know he loves me together with my flaws. i think s*x should be done when you are more matured and prepared. save for some1 special. the first time will feel uncomfortable but as time goes on you don't even think of it trust me!

Answer 14

If he does...then he isn't worth the effort hun...whoever you choose to be with, should love, and respect you for exactly who you are...you are perfect...remember that !!!!

Answer 15

No, I'm Sure The Boob thing is normal and will Even out Pretty soon,

(I really wouldn't know having a p***s :] ) And I'm sure there lotions or something to Heal / Hide the Stretch marks  

Answer 16

It is totally normal. During puberty your hips, thighs and b*****s all grow quite rapidly and this can lead to stretch marks. I would say at least 50% of girls have them. If they were all over your belly that would look like pregnancy. I even know a few lads who have stretch marks on upper arms and thighs from working out and rapidly building muscle. Very few women have b***s of exactly the same size but if you think it is noticeable and pronounced have a word with your GP, you can have surgery to correct this but not until you are a little older as at 16 you are still growing.

I have never met a single woman who is not conscious of her body and thinks something is wrong. No one loves their body - NO ONE AT ALL.

Answer 17

no body is perfect my dear, you can have your b***s surgical done to make them the same size. Stretch Marks are normal especially if you have growth spurts.  

Answer 18

everyone has stretch marks on their bottoms and the breast will probably even out in the next 2 years, are you comfy in a swim suit if you are you have a better body image then me and im still married to the hottest guy alive.

Answer 19

Hey all women have one breast slightly different in size from their left breast to their right breast,  as for stretch marks I am 60 years old and it never put me off a women yet and most men think the the same do not worry

Answer 20

no. every girl thinks her b***s are noticably bigger then the other but its really not noticable. and honey if your having s*x with a guy it should be a guy you love and really care about and he should feel the same. therefore it wont matter if you have one boob thats a cup and the c cup. and he wont care if you have stretch marks or not. but if he makes a big deal out of it. then he's really not worth your time and he's not the right guy to be sharing those vulnerable moments with

Answer 21

Only a guy that isn't particularly bright would.  A semi-intelligent member of the male species would understand that stretch marks and b***s of differing sizes are normal. (in fact, i can bet that neither your arms nor your legs are the same length either).

As for the stretch marks, believe it or not, but they are perfectly normal during the teenage years too.  Growth spurts cause stretch marks too. I'm assuming you had your growth spurt around age 14, and those stretch marks appeared roughly around the time you were 15 years old.  And now, one year on, it's still waiting to heal.  

The fact that they're around your hips and legs is normal too.  After all, puberty is where women tend to start filling out around the hips and b***s.  On that note, don't freak out when you see them around the sides of your b***s either.  All normal. (Don't worry too much about the guys, they get theirs at age 15 to 16.  So you can bet they'll be sporting their own stretch marks too).

And nothing wrong with not planning to have s*x either.  At least you won't have to worry about STD's in your life ;)

A final note... if you feel that the stretch marks are particularly bad, most dermatologists can perform dermabrasion, laser scar removal or any other number of procedures to lessen the appearance of them.  Understand that you're not weird, but if you feel insecure about them, I'm all for doing what you can to give yourself that little esteem boost.

Take care.

Answer 22

As long as your panties are down, men usually do not see anything else but your genitals....

Trust me, after four marriages, I should know.

Answer 23

Okayyy x

If you meet a guy and he thinks you are weird for not wanting to have s*x then he is not the man for you. A guys should understand that you are not ready to have s*x. If he has a problem with your b***s then thats his problem. You are who you are and you body is the way it is and you shouldnt hate it because it will stay that way until you grow up and mature and stretch out. You shouldnt worry about your body and you should enjoy your life until it cut off with becoming and adult. The Main Thing is that the guy should LIKE OR LOVE YOU THE WAY YOU ARE. That is the main thing.

Im 13 slim

Chubby thighs

small ****

5ft 7inch

Got sexual to early

But I Know That Is The Way i Am...

Remember This like its a scripture from the bible made by girls who answer YOUR questions

From Taylor x

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From the account user:

I am 5ft 4.

32C ****.

big head.

bi bum.

Chubby thighs.

but i dnt care.

boys torture me... but it's me... so what?

And if i'm with a boy,. he loves me for hoo i am,. Simple. You should think that too! ox

Answer 24

no :S normal (Y)

stretch marks = loosing weight quickly/gaining weight quickly

dw

Answer 25

The reason you have stretch marks is because your body has probably gone through a growth spurt very quickly and your skin had to stretch quickly.

Your b***s will even out, but the reason one is always going to bigger than the other is because of the hand you write with stregnths the muscles on one side, making that side slightly bigger.

By the way, when a boy/man sees b***s, they dont think about the size, all they think is b***s!!!

If you want to get rid of the stretch marks you can, because you and your skin is so young, just moisturise with something like cocoa butter (purer the better) or something called Bio Oil, it is more expensive, but you only need a little.

You will get used to your body, it is the only one you have!

Answer 26

Oh jesus, stop thinking about silly things. If you dont like yourself, kill yourself.

Everybody has those marks on hips and all the women have b***s of different size. Its absolutely normal. You should not stare at yourself in a mirror so often. Sorry, but LOL.

Answer 27

Stretch marks are normal. It just means you're growing fast. If you moisturise them it can help them go away they, which they normally turn white and are very feint. All girls b***s aren't completley identical. If they are seriously different you could talk to your doctor about it or just learn to accept them. No decent guy is going to be bothered about these body issues your have. I worried about my b***s, cellulite etc when I was a teenager, which is normal anyway, but as you get older you start to realise these things are not worth worrying about and a decent relationship with a guy doesn't revolve around stretch marks etc. There will always be someone who would die to have your body!  

Answer 28

No, he honestly probably won't even notice.  Guys don't notice things like that like we do.  

Answer 29

Not at all

Answer 30

Having "asymmetrical" b***s is really quite NORMAL.  More girls/women have it than you realize.  It's nothing to feel self-conscious about.  And if it bothered some guy. . .FIND ANOTHER GUY!  Because that KIND of guy would be considered VERY shallow!  You want a buy who loves you for YOU!  Not just your b***s.  

As for the stretch marks. . .if they bothered most men, then almost EVERY woman better jump off the planet.  I don't know of ONE woman who DOESN'T have them once she's reached puberty or had a child!  Give me a break!

What you need more than ANYTHING, is a healthy respect for YOURSELF!  THAT'S the BIGGEST aphrodisiac to a MALE!  You're MORE than just your BODY!  You happen to have a MIND, too.

Answer 31

Noticeably bigger to who - you or everyone - it is not uncommon.

Stretch marks are not just for women who have had babies - they happen to all sorts of people of all ages.

Is it a case of you are self conscious about it.

So, to conclude - 99% of guys would probably not even notice