Would a mediocre body prevent you from liking a guy?

Question

I'm 15 years old, I'm 6 feet tall and 160lbs. I don't have a great body, but from what lots of girls have told me, I'm handsome. I'm certainly not in great shape but I'm still fairly fit. I also have a good personality as I'm funny and I'd like to think .. ..nice.

I'm just wondering, does your potential boyfriend NEED to have a great body for you to date him?

Answer 1

No! A body is just a plus, i mean i wouldn't want a guy who was utterly unhealthy, but from what it sounds like you are still fairly fit, and the fact you are that tall isn't bad for what you weigh, and you will continue growing. Girls who HAVE to have a guy who is in peak condition are superficial and lameeee.

Personality is keyyy

Looks are a plus.  

Answer 2

not at all, as long as there is some tone i guess thats fine with me. look at the movie Say Anything. Girls from all over the world fell in LOVE with Lloyd Dobler, and his body wasn't great...look it up.

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Answer 3

Not at all. No physical feature should have any effect in a serious relationship that is looking to go far. If you can't handle a guy that doesn't have an amazing 6-pack and all, how are you going to feel when he's wrinkled, pot-bellied and has grey hair?

If you're looking for a sexual relationship, then yes, looks do have a say. But remember that beauty is in the eye of the beholder, meaning that not everyone thinks that massive muscles is the "perfect" body. Everyone finds something different attractive to the next person.

But true love is about what's inside. It's about connecting with someone and just loving them for who they are. Sure, you can find them attractive... but it's what's inside that counts.