Would a relationship where the female is older work out?

Question

im 19 yrs old and really like a 29yr old...she shows some intrest but not too much...shud i persue this relationship? what other advice can i get

Answer 1

it wont work, trust me. when she is older she will want things you can not give her. She will leave and you will be left shaking your head asking why.When she is older you will want a younger woman. This is life.  

Answer 2

wow, its 10 yrs different. Even people say number is just a number true love doesn't count, but depend on you too. Try to find someone close to your age maybe a few years differences would be better?

Answer 3

i think she'd find you to be too young since you're a teenager and she's almost 30, which is when a lot of people have a sort of early life crisis for some stupid reason. I'm 21 and I wouldn't date a 19 year old guy just because guys in my age range tend to be immature. Anyway, if you like her that much just go for it! What's the worst that could happen, she says no? Better to find out than to never know. You're probably pretty mature if you like her in the first place.  

Answer 4

You won't know until you try. Grab the bull by the horns and do it! :-)

Answer 5

I had a similar situation myself.

The question you would have to ask yourself is... why would she be interested in someone your age?

Since she is 29, she may be looking for someone who is slightly more secure with career and finances.  You may be this, but at 19, I certainly wasn't.

There is also a maturity level difference.  When I was 20, I dated someone who was 27, and she was too immature for me.  It goes both ways.

There is also a generation gap; although it probably wouldn't be a problem.

Overall, if you have a lot of common ground, and are both willing to pursue the relationship, then I suppose it wouldn't hurt to try.

Good luck!

Answer 6

she would prob think your still a kid

Answer 7

it can work out i'd try it

Answer 8

Wait till you are twenty five to chase older woman. And why would you persue if she isn't really showing that much interest. She may be flattered but that would be about it.

Answer 9

It worked for Demi and Ashton.  

Answer 10

My aunt is 7 years older than my uncle. It's not that weird once you're older. But since you're only 19, I think it'd be kind of...odd. And it'd probably turn out badly. But I read in a magazine once about this older woman who dated this waaaaayy younger guy and they ended up getting married. So, just follow your heart! :D