Would a shy, 13 year old guy think about s*x with his first gf?

Question

I reckon they do.. but my little cuz dont beleive me (about her bf)

Answer 1

I got your IP address, will tell these things to your parents, be ready with your answers.

Answer 2

yes he would think about it ... alot but he wouldnt get inappropriate

Answer 3

Don't have s*x little kids...not old enough.

Answer 4

I'm sure most of them would think about it, but that doesn't mean they would act upon it. All 13 year olds are different. I've known some in really innocent relationships which they call boyfriend/girlfriend but they don't even kiss. Whereas a few 13 year olds do have s*x.

Harriet

Answer 5

Harriet has answered this perfectly! At 13 a boy's hormones are having a very strong effect, and s*x is very much on his mind, along with spontaneous erections which he can't control.

Actually doing anything is a very different matter, but it's sensible to be aware of the possibility.

Answer 6

Well, I'm kinda shy, but if I'm around someone I like s*x is the last thing on my mind.

But I'm 17, when your 13 it's probably diffirent.

Answer 7

YES and in a big way.  13 and 14 is a very active time for a boy,and that might be all they think about, but girls are risky to them.  They are still not too sure how or if they are doing it right.

Mastubation is far safer and more common then a relationship.  Even the first time is a very difficult deal for just about every one, but I think the question you stated was more about if s*x was on their mind, and the real answer is YES and in a very big way.  

Masturbation started long before then if he has a f******n, and even if he is cut he might already have found out how to do this. Maybe from a friend..  A BOY friend...  That's right !   A boy is just like him and safe grounds...  Its not a g*y thing its more like a safe thing..

All boys compare equipment at least once in their life.  How else can they know they are normal...  None of this implies a homosexsual future and its all normal.

Hope that spells it out.  Make no mistake...  13 14 & 15 are very active years for a male, but he has a lot of growingt up to do yet.

Your real answer.

Answer 8

Yes. I agree they can, MOST of them, not all of them, I believe. When I was 13, I always thought about s*x, but I didn't have a girlfriend. But, I wouldn't want any 13 year old to have s*x until they are over 18. Too young & it might ruin your life by unwanted pregnancy, STDs & other things that are worse, I guess.

Answer 9

Do your cuz a favor and don't discuss things like this.  Let kids be kids while they can and leave the s*x alone until they're older.

Answer 10

All boys once they have reached puberty think about s*x all of the time.

It doesn't matter if they are shy or bold they think about s*x.

Your little cuz's boyfriend may not be aggressive but in his heart he is thinking about having s*x anytime he is awake and dreaming about it when he is asleep.