Would a wife want to know?

Question

That her husband has lost romantic feelings for her but still loves her.

Answer 1

talk to her, before you cheat on her. she doesnt deserve that

Answer 2

yes i would want to know- i love my fiancee and would want to be making him happy in all aspects of our relationship and if that dept was lacking iwould do all i can to fix it

Answer 3

No I want the complete package I want to feelings to be mutual.

Answer 4

She probably already does.  

Answer 5

it would probably cause her to want to end the marriage, when a man says this, why even try anymore or invest in someone who doesn't love u.

Answer 6

no bc you might get them back.  if you still love her your not that horrible.  shouldn't talk about things you can't really control.  

Answer 7

I think she needs to know so that the two of you can work on it.

Answer 8

YES!  You need to tell her.  There is nothing worse than being in a one-sided realtionship.  

Answer 9

no ****, she's decided to spend the rest of her life with you

Answer 10

You can't fix it if you don't know it's broken.

You should tell her.

Maybe then you two can work on it.

If you want it to remain the same then don't say a word.

Good luck

Answer 11

Well one thing I want her to know is that you're a complete *** hole.

I hope she see's one day that you're nothing but scum and leaves you dying for water in a deep hole filled with venemous lizards.  

Answer 12

I wouldn't tell her that. With the info you gave us all I can say is. You need to do things to get those feelings back.  Now just think what can you do and she do to get the feelings back.  Is she not showing you enough attention because she's busy with kids, work, and cleaning?  help her out to save time. Have you been together a long time? do something new or something you haven't done in a while. Is she your best friend? she should be.

Add fun in your life with her. I bet you and her have become distant and that is causing and will always cause problems.  

Answer 13

Yes. Then after that divorce/seperate. Or fix the issue.

Answer 14

Yes I would want to know. You can't keep that a secret from her for the rest of your marriage you need to work through it or decide to end it

Answer 15

Well,you cant fix the problem unless you throw it out there,you cant hang on to that stuff its not healthy plus you owe to your spouse to be honest and put forth some effort to salvage the marriage,which cant be done if one thinks everything is fine while the other is having issues,communication is the key word here

Answer 16

I would want to know. And why so maybe I could do something to change it.

Answer 17

Yes.. I'm just waiting for him to admit he is g*y!

Answer 18

I suppose I would want to know just so that I could try to improve the situation.

Answer 19

Yes, we have been going through this also. We talked about it and decided to work on our relationship.  

Answer 20

no..  what, did you find a lover or something?  

Answer 21

No, this is just one of those things that you as a man have to learn to fake.  Sort of like a woman learns to fake orgasms.

She doesn't want to know the truth on this subject.  If you love her let her have her fantasy of a loving, romantic husband.

Answer 22

You're a smart cookie, aren't you? Obviously she would want to know.  

Answer 23

this is hard. i mean leading her on is wrong. i think bn honest is very important. maybe you can talk to her and maybe go to couciling i mean you still love her so it must be fixable? no? i would want to know that way i can find out if we aren't communacting enough. i wish you luck *curliesue*

Answer 24

I would want to know.  

Answer 25

So let us be for real...if you really love her then you would take the time to tell her and you make the changes to make your marriage work. She can't read ya mind.  

Answer 26

Your an A** and I hope your wife moves on and finds someone who really deserves her.

Answer 27

Whether or not she wants to know, she needs to know.

Answer 28

I'd want to know so that I could find someone that DID have romantic feelings for me.