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My husband and I are both 24 years old. We have been married for 3 years and have a solid relationship. I am at the point of wanting to begin our family. My husband (in the military) wants to wait until he reaches a more desirable pay grade. His timeline would leave us starting our family four years from now. Before anyone suggests sitting him down to talk about a compromise, let me tell you that I've tried. He is just not willing to budge. I am of the opinion that if people waited to have children until they were 'ready' no one would ever get around to it. We are in a comfortable financial situation with a lot in savings and I don't think a few dollars more per hour will change the impact of a child.Now to my question. Would I be creating a bad situation if I were to "accidentally" get pregnant? I think I am beyond suspicion. I recently stopped taking Birth Control Pills because they were creating a hormone imbalance in my body. I discussed this with my husband and we are now newly trying out Natural Family Planning.Am I terrible for thinking this way?
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