Would any girl in China, Japan, Korea,Thailand and or any where in the world date a guy or like a guy like me?

Question

18 year old black male who is nice, respectful, smart, kind, honest, a good person and I don't dress like those rappers, thugs and gangsters , I don't sag my pants or wear bling and I have respect for women and I would never ever hurt them,. everyone thinks that all black guys are mean, disrespectful, violent, but I'm not that kind of person and will never be.I'm a church goer, I'm educated and I always treat people with respect. And I have a big head. It's hard to be like by a black girl. all the time. I see the type of a guy they like which is someone sagging his pants, wearing expensive, a grill in his mouth, doo rag on his head and they fall for that but me I don't dress like that ever! Maybe black girls are not for me and maybe I should find someone outside of my race.Black girls never treat me with respect I never had a girlfriend, I never been om a date because girls only treat me as a friend for my entire life.I respect girls all over the world and i always treat like the intelligent women they are. Girls only like good-looking and athletic. It is hard to be like by a girl. Maybe I should give up and move on from black girls and find a girl from a different race, maybe the girls I see are not for me, every girl is different. Maybe I should find someone outside of my race. love has no skin color and love can from any race. maybe she is out there. maybe i can find someone who would like regardless of my skin color because we all are God's children

Answer 1

I have no experience in China or South Korea, however I used to live in Japan. Let me tell you that nice guys are appreciated over there.

As a Black man who used to live in Japan I will let you know that you won't have any problem meeting a nice woman there. I would imagine it's the same way in China and South Korea.

True, there is that "image" of the thug and all of that. But I defy that image too. I dress well and I have interests in foreign films, music and artists from abroad. I decreed a long time ago that I would not be like a thugh and that I would better myself in all that I do and learn about as many other cultures that I could.

In doing so, I have acquired many friends, learned languages, I know of many singers, entertainers and movie stars from other countries, especially from Asia.

You litterally have nothing to worry about. You will find a good woman. I've dated Japanese women, Korean, and currently my girl friend is Thai. She appreciates me for who I am and the gentleman that I am. She doesn't care about looks or "image" or money. You will fare quite well. I think it's good that you like Boa and Puffy Ami Yumi.

You can break the ice with women( particularly in Japan) with those artists and others that I'm sure you like too. The women, as well as any other citizen will be surprised that you even know about their countries artists and they will be glad that you embrace their pop culture, language etc.

So to answer your question, you won't have a problem.

One thing I want to mention is that you should be aware that you will meet women in those countries that go exclusively for White men. There's noting wrong with that as it's their preference and their choice.

The other thing you might notice in places like Japan and Taiwan are that SOME of the women that like Black guys usually are into Rap, Hip Hop etc and SOME of them are into that "thug image." Yet, from living over there (Japan, Korea, China) they have no run-in's with African Americans (other than S. Koreans & Japanese who live around American bases.) so they don't know how to distinguish a thug Black dude from a classy Black guy since their just into the music and that part of the image.

What you should look for is a woman who likes you for "YOU." She should not care about image or anything like that.

If you're not into Hip Hop or that realm, search for a woman who has similar interests or who is not interested Rap, Hip Hop etc. That's your safest bet.

Anyway, just remember to always be cool, calm and collected while still showing your confidence and you will be fine. Trust me.

Answer 2

wow! u sound so sweet! i would definetly date u! im from the U.S.(white)

Answer 3

They could like You,trust Me.if You are a good person they would love You,so don't worry,there's good women and there's bad women

Answer 4

might.  

Answer 5

try phillapeno girls they love black men

Answer 6

you sound nice. don't worry, everyone has someone for them out there. a good man like you will have no problems finidng a partner.  

Answer 7

You just have to keep looking and you'll find her soon.