Would any women go for this? or is this out of the question?

Question

If i were ever to get married I would want a very small wedding. I would even rather it be 3 people just me my wife and someone to marry us. The biggest wedding I would want would to invite 10 to 15 each. I know a lot of women have dream weddings with hundreds of people in a huge setting but are any women against that concept? I know the wedding is completely up to her and what ever she says goes but a guy can dream can't he? Your thoughts?

Answer 1

when we got married 4 years ago the only people there were me and my husband.

i ant understand why people would want lots of people at their wedding it would embarrass me.

we got married on the beach in Jamaica in the pool together the morning of the wedding drinking cocktails. the   weding is about the two of you not anyone else. i will encourage my daughter to do the same when she grows up.

Answer 2

If that's what you're looking for, I suggest you stay away from women who identify themselves as "traditional" and who carry small dogs around in expensive handbags.

Try a feminist. You'll like it.

Answer 3

I would actually prefer a small, intimate wedding.  

Marriage isn't about me, my husband and 300 casual acquaintances, it's about me and my husband.  Inviting anybody other than very close family and friends would feel  like it was more about the show and less about the vows.

You should have as much input on your wedding as you will in your marriage, neither of them are just about her.

Answer 4

So you want to elope!

Some people find that extremely romantic  :)

Answer 5

I told my partner when we get married we'll get someone to come round and marry us at home, my mum can be a witness, then once we've said our vows, we can get back to our daily chores. No big wedding plans for me. I'm a women.

he thinks its a great idea, if he wanted to do something different we would have negotiated something that suited both us.

Answer 6

I agree.  The wedding is about the couple, and it's ridiculous to spend so much time and money on people who aren't really important to them.  30 people MAX for mine.

Answer 7

allot of women would rather just go to Vegas then have a big wedding.

Answer 8

Loads of people want small intimate weddings. I think I had about 20 people at the reception.

Answer 9

There are plenty of women who want small weddings, too.

Don't let "Bridezillas" fool you.

Answer 10

There are plenty of girls who would go for it! I don't want a big wedding at all. I'd rather a small ceremony while on vacation in a beautiful place we'd love to explore together. We can celebrate with friends and family when we return....and they can watch the video at the party.

Answer 11

Plenty of women would like small weddings and contrary to popular belief, what she says doesn't always go. You're are getting married as well, it isn't a one person ceremony.

There are some women out there who are bridezillas. They want huge weddings and lots of money spent on them and everything to go their way.

But for every bridezilla there is a laidback girl who is willing to compromise.

I imagine, if and when you find that right girl, she'll be willing to work with you so you both have a wedding you enjoy.

Answer 12

I know alot of girls and women who would rather have a dinky wedding so its more focus on you two than all the guests. Like for example my mother and father had just him her the minister his mom and dad and her mom and dad.

Answer 13

Committing your life to someone is personal, and should stay personal. I'd rather have a small memorable wedding, than a circus.

Answer 14

Three person wedding sounds nice.

I'll probably marry one day but I really don't want a wedding and reception.

Answer 15

Me I rather have a small wedding then pay thousands of dollars for 1 day. I would agree to it.

Answer 16

if i got married i would only want my  immediate family which consists of only 9 ppl. and a few family friends.

but if my family wanted to invite other ppl...then they could..that is fine too. i just dont want it too be too big.

and id like to get married at my local park. its really big and has an area that is surrounded by roses and a really pretty archway trellis .

and i would want my wedding dress to be a long light light blue empire waisted gown with long sleeves. I would carry a bouquet of blue roses and wear a blue rose in my hair. and i would have my hair half up and half down. and slightly curled.

but all in all...i dont care if its all expensive with alot of ppl.

small is much nicer...but like any woman..i would want to at least have it be nice and be pretty on that day. :) even if i do look like a troll..( and not a Yahoo one either)

Answer 17

Well, I can't understand why you would dream of something this awful....

Maybe you have small dreams and want very little out of life, but come on....your wedding?

Wedding Day is supposed to be one of the most happiest days of your life!

I'm a kind of girl who will never fall for a man this little! You're such a little man.

Are you cheap? You have to be...if you want a small wedding that bad! Money isn't supposed to be an issue here!

Let me ask you a question..... If you're dreaming to have a small wedding, then how small is your dream of a Honeymoon?

Maybe you want a small wedding, but then like you said, theres a lot of women (including me) who wants a LARGE WEDDING AND HONEYMOON!

I wish to have my honeymoon is to be in  Hawaii for at least 2 weeks. No less than 2 weeks!! And I stay all the way in South Carloina! So, yeah! Imagine the ride just to get there, the money to spend..etc... Thats why I would want no less than 2 weeks over there. I should say a month or two. I mean after all, its the lady's job to pay for the Wedding, but the male's job to pay for the honeymoon and I'm going to make sure he pays well of his share! And he's better make me a happy woman too!

* BEST SUGGESTION TO TELL YOU * Better not find a girl like me. Or else she will put you through pure h**l with all the money you have to spend.

This is sad. I didn't even answer your question with the little stars I usually put.

This is a low life question.

Answer 18

I am engaged and I would like a small wedding.  Maybe not as small as the one you would like but small.....My fiance wants a bigger one LOL go figure....I think a lot of women need the attention more than others...I think a wedding shoud be special and personal....some feel differently....to each its own I gues