Would guys freak if....?

Question

u tel them ur a virgin? but they probably think that u're not?! coz recently im crushing a guy..and we've been closed..and we told eachother that we're interested in eachother and wanna get to know each other better...and he knows that ive been in a few long term relationships..and lately we've been fooling around.. and im unsure what he's thinking.. i think he's expecting more.. but im still a virgin and im not gonna do it with him till i know for sure what hes thinkin and if we're in a relationship.. but if i tell him..will he freak?

Answer 1

I think that you should tell him whatever you want. Maybe you should also consider waiting until your married to loose your virginity. The greatest gift you can give your husband on your wedding day is your virginity.

Answer 2

The worst thing you can do - and this is coming from a guy - the worst thing you can do if you want to keep him as a boyfriend is to lead him on by fooling around and not telling him you are a virgin until he tries to make that move. The best thing you can do is to tell him your intentions now - that way he will know what to expect, know what your limits are, and he will not be surprised/disappointed when you reject him. If he doesn't know, he may think it's his fault. He won't dump you because you are a virgin! In fact, most guys see that as a good thing. And if he did dump you then you are obviously too good for him, if he would prefer a trashy girl then you have to ask yourself why you would WANT to date him.

But, tell him!

Answer 3

Be straight up now. If that scares him off then your better for it. You want someone to take care of you your first time and they cant do that properly if they dont know.

If he really cares about you then he'll let you set the pace and make your first time special. If he is a virgin too then you'll just have to muddle along together.

Answer 4

If s*x is all he's after then you are better off finding out now and getting rid of him.  You might be in the right section after all.  Farmers have known for years that there is no need to buy the cow if they can get the milk for free.

Answer 5

talk to him...and since this is in the Agriculture section, you guys can come and use the hay loft in my barn!

Answer 6

If you say that he already thinks you are, but you're really not... As a man, upon hearing the truth, I would amount that to a huge relief. Don't hurry yourself into losing it either.

Answer 7

i think honesty is always the best in a relationship - you never know what the other partner is thinking until they tell you...

but why is this question under agriculture???

are you planning your first time in a hay bale?

Answer 8

Would you 'freak' if he told you he was a virgin? He probably is and that is OK. You know, everyone is at one time or another. If you think about it, it isn't that much of a big deal. Whether you are or are not, you will have a relationship with someone and be physically close when you are comfortable with that person. Even if you have had a physical relationship before, you will not have that kind of a relationship with a person if you don't feel good about that person. No one wants to be rushed into the back seat or the 20 minutes time lag from Mom or Dad going to the store ("Be right back!"). Waiting is cool and when the person is right and the time is right (and you have enough of it to make it a special time without stress or anxiety) then all will be very cool. And what may make that even better is that you play that special card (I've never done this before) at just the right time, and that may not be for a long time yet.

PS, this is, Ummmm, Agriculture?, just in case you got the wrong page, but no one seems to mind.

Answer 9

And how is this related to agriculture???  Perhaps cattle ranching?

Answer 10

Most guys would love to be the first.

Answer 11

If he loves you and truly cares about you, he will be fine with it and respect your wishes. You should be honest with him. He probabily thinks you have done it before. You did say you where in a couple of long term relationships. Also, good for you.

Answer 12

He doesn't have to know about your sexual history whether you have one or not. If you don't want to have s*x there is nothing wrong with that regardless of if you've had s*x before.

I mean it's not like just because you have s*x for the first time it's all s*x from there on out. That kind of outlook can seriously kick a soul in the @ss.

Answer 13

Unless you are planning to lose your virginity to a corn cob, you are in the wrong section...

Answer 14

Is this a romp in the hay?  Is that why you are asking it  under Agriculture?

Answer 15

I Think may be he will  think you are lying and I think it might scare him a little bit, but if he really care about you and not just for s*x then you two will go very far.