Would guys rather approach a girl when she's alone?

Question

Ok so I was reading a few questions about where to meet guys,and I noticed that "coffee shops" are often in the answers..

When I walk in the street alone,I notice a lot of guys checking me out all the time..but what if I would get inside a coffee shop? Would the guys think I'm a loser to go there and drink my coffee by myself and it'd be better to go with some girl friends or would they be glad about it 'cause it may mean I'm easier to approach?

lol sorry this is probably a stupid question...I'm just really annoyed/confused at the moment 'cause I want to find a boyfriend and I see guys checking me out all the time but they NEVER come and talk to me/introduce themselves,whatever.Any suggestions?

Answer 1

It's harder to approach outside while on the streets walking around, rather then taking a chance to mess up or be humiliated, most approaches happen in shops, malls, theaters, trains, buses, etc.

So, when a guy is checking you out, and he doesn't approach you, he may be shy or lacks confidence and you should make eye contact with him, smile and all or go over to him and introduce yourself.

Answer 2

coffee shops are the answer its less embarrassing for the boy if its only u.

Answer 3

i go to coffeeshops, movies a lot on my own. still sofar no guy has moved on me, LOL

anyways it is a bit safer to go with others, that way they don't mistake you for someone who *fishes* for them.

good luck!

Answer 4

Guys are a lot more nervous about talking to girls than girls realise and having th guts to just go up and start talking to a girl you don't know is hard. I find that if the girl is on her own then in some ways its easier, because if she was in a group of friends i wouldnt feel comfortable talking to her on my own. Maybe you've gotta try being more open to approach, or even strike up conversations yourself? pretend you need help with something, guys love to help a girl in need.

If it gets found out that you were only pretending then its not necessarily a bad thing either, as long as you're getting along well at that point. You can just say you were nervous but wanted to get to know him, i'm sure he wouldnt mind.

Hope this helps, and good luck in finding a boyfriend :)

Answer 5

for me i like to approach a girl all by herself......So that we can know and understand each other very well..... would like to know me well?:)

Answer 6

walk around with a sign saying "talk to me im single"

and if that doesn't work then when you see the guys checking you out go and talk to them

Answer 7

Yea guys def. feel more comfortable approaching a girl by herself, because he only has to impress one person. if he rolls up onto a pack if one girl does not approve she will assume the role of " mother hen" and drive him away.  so if you want more guys to approach you ditch your friends lol, jk but i hope you caught my drift.