Would he change in a year?

Question

I know that guys who are desperate for a relationship usually chase girls in their friend circle. I am a friend who has stated my interest, I wasn't sure if he liked me or not because he didn't answer with a "yes" or "no" he went on about "I wondered if you were in love with me at some point" we've been friends for about a half a year and graduated from highschool.

He's going to college, I plan to go to college next year 'cause I want to work this one year, I fear that he will find a gf within that year since we can't talk to each other face to face and date because his parents don't like girls in the house and he has an ex gf.

I lost all hope of ever knowing he was interested in me and I feel he will simply move on like I never said anything and be in a relationship with someone else. I also feel that he was lying at one point, he said he would do things for me, but he said them when he was drunk so I don't know if he truly had any feelings toward me. I would ask, but then he doesn't keep his word, forgets I said anything or seems like he isn't listening to what I say, sometimes.

Answer 1

you could always give him a chance, but don't get to attached.  Let him come to you though, if he doesn't then he probably wasn't looking for a relationship.  However, if he is shy and reserved then you need to pursue him.

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Answer 2

It kind of sounds like you were just someone to toy around with.  If he answered with "I wondered if you were in love with me at some point", then he's probably not really interested.  He just wanted another fling before college.  And to answer the question at hand: No, men never change.  Ever.

Answer 3

Sarah, he is er... not the best boy you can find, I'm sure.

Never mind if he likes you or not but the fact is that he does not treat you like a real person. I mean, you should follow your heart and see if he really likes you or not. Often, you get this warm feeling when you like someone, (as in crush) but in this case, I get the feeling that you are forced to question how you really feel towards him. Like you yourself are not sure whether you like him in the first place considering everything he's done to you. You are really doubting things. If so, I advise you to just forget about everything.

Anyway, only you will determine what will happen and only you can decide what you want to do in the end. I respect that so if you have made up your mind, go all out for it!

I hope this has helped to a certain extent. Good luck! :)