Would i look like a bad father if i packed my stuff up tonight? Girls help me out.?

Question

Well if you don't know the drama that I'm going threw. I'll make it short, my wife soon to be ex. She cheated on me, and the other night i told her and the sister and boyfriend to shut up cause i have to work. So my question is, I'm just thinking about leaving tonight and staying with my boss. Witch me and him are really good friends. But would i look like a bad father? I make enough money to get back up on my feet in the next couple weeks. Every thing that's in my house she could have i don't want no court problems. So what do you think?

Answer 1

just leave. whatever is best for you and your family and most importantly what you feel is right. Your kids will understand later how their mother effed up the relationship and do not stop seeing your children! you need to be present at all times! try to spend as much time as you can with them

Answer 2

Do whats best for your kids. If you going away will make the home peaceful, then its best if you left.

Answer 3

if children see constant fighting yes its bad, it stays in their head, children are like mini recorders everything they see is part of their lives till the day they die. if you go you gotta make sure that you come very very often as if you never left, pick up from school, see them on weekends, and do normal stuff not take them to disney world, but just regular stuff that can identify you as part of their everyday goings about. but please please please remember how much you will always mean to them, a father gone is always a dent and never never never bad mouth the mother, i think its brave of you to leave, get a lawyer and always put your child ahead of yourself, because if you dont they will never forgive you. just stay on top and show them that living in a different house from "mom" does not make you less of a family..dont buy things, just be there.

Answer 4

leave right now and get a lawyer and never stop seeing your child

Answer 5

That's a tricky one but make sure you make it clear that you still love your kid. If you do leave that is. I can't help you with the moving out part because that's up to you and no one can decide that for you.