Would it be a good idea to marry your ex girlfriend.?

Question

Its been more than 3 years now, since we broke up, she got married & recently divorced, one of our common friends told me abt her divorce ,i happen to call her up as she was going thru a hard time druing divorce, but i certainly have no feeling for her, she lately proposed stating it would be a good idea as we know each other quite well. iam really perplexed and confused now ? pls advise?

Answer 1

ok if your not in love with her or have no feeling for her in that kind of way then maybe u should only remain just friends I'm not telling u what to do just advising as not being funny but why waste years being married to some one u didn't want or love also bare in mind shes just divorced so her head is all over the place shes lonely and upset if u don't want to be with her but worried how to tell her without upsetting her just say u know shes recently divorced and that she needs to think straight before going into another relationship i am here for you as a friend  

Answer 2

to be honest, it doesn't sound like a good idea, there was a reason you two broke up, you don't love her, and it sounds like she's just in a bad place and is using you as a rebound.

Answer 3

Nah! Not a good idea!  If people who are in love have trouble, what do you think is going to happen with people who don't love each other!

Support her emotionally, but don't marry her.

Answer 4

If you are not in love with her anymore... or  have " no feelings" as you say-- then it sounds like you dont even want to be in a relationship with her.. let alone marriage. Dont kid yourself, please.

Answer 5

She is on the rebound and he probably left her which is a huge ego blow to anyone, she wants to be married and anyone will do.  Don't take her seriously right now.

Answer 6

if you have no feelings for her then why are you asking

Answer 7

Its common sense to not marry someone you do not have feelings for.

Shes obviously on a rebound & probably confused as to what she wants.

I can't believe you're even asking this lol

Answer 8

Funny,u said u have no feeling 4her and u still ask if it´s a good idea to marry her????!!!!

Answer 9

In your case the answer is no.  Don't marry someone like that.

Answer 10

Hum, don't marry someone you're not in love with!