Would it be a good idea to tell him?

Question

I really like my guy friend for about a year now, but I was afraid to tell him b/c he has been getting over a breakup with long time g/f. He was sending me mixed signals and sort of ditched our group for another one. He said he would be "back to normal" by fall. I tried to get over him, but CANT. Should I just tell him how I feel so I can move on? If so, when should I tell him? RIght away?

Answer 1

Do not cross the "friend" line without being fully prepared to reep the consequences; you may very well lose him all together.  You might have this fantasy image of how the relatioship could be when in fact it wont.  Ive been there, lost my friend of 22 yrs because of one night... I wish I could take it back..  

Answer 2

Why torture yourself, tell him and see what happens, how he reacts or says.  Yes., at least you can move on and not walk with a ball and chain dragging you.  Quit wasting time, what if he just said that he would be normal because your not his type.  If you can't just be his friend, go for it, you have other friends right?  Also, might work in your favor if he responds positively towards you.

Answer 3

i would say wait for a little...the worst thing women can do is being desperate, which makes men run for the hills.

love takes time, you have been freiends with him for a year, so let time sort things out. you will know when he is ready to love somebody.