Would it be cool to find out your Spouse is Cheating?

Question

Does anyone find it cool when they find out their spouse is cheating, like it makes them more desirable? Like it makes them more animal-like than a boring same old person, kind like they have a double life that is s**y.

Answer 1

What the heck are you smoking? No, that does NOT make one more desireable, it makes them LESS trustworthy!

Answer 2

It would be a relief... then I could divorce him and take a chunk of his change and know that at least he has someone in his life, so I don't have to feel guilty about leaving (which I want to do).  But for your reason ..no.

Answer 3

um, no i would be disgusted and i would leave them.  

Answer 4

What could possibly be cool about being unfaithful and hurting someone that you love.

Answer 5

wierdo freak!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...

Answer 6

No, it feels more like betrayal. Not to mention the disease that she could be bringing to the relationship.

Answer 7

No, it just means s/he is a lying scumbag.

Answer 8

You're sick.

Answer 9

I would simply be impressed that his p***s actually worked because I know its not working for me.  I would have to cheer him on. A p***s is a terrible thing to waste!

Answer 10

i personally would not think it was cool, i would be heart broken, jealous, pissd off yada yada, however whatever floats your boat i guess!

And to lily, i am sorry u feel that way, i felt that way once to and i actually ended up cheating on my husband because of it, and for no other reason except i needed to end it and i was to much of a pu**y to come out and tell him it was over, but it was the most awful time of my entire life!!! However we spent a couple years apart and ended up remarrying and i haven't looked back ever since. I was young and you probably are to, but you'll figure it out eventually and do what you gotta do. O and if u aren't so young and have been married for a long time...DO NOT USE THAT AS AN EXCUSE!!! Time isn't a factor as far as happiness is concerned, yes guilt sucks, but think of how guilty you 'll feel when u end up doing something awful just to spare his feelings. trust me! good luch hun

Answer 11

Cool?

No!

Answer 12

naw! at least not for me.  dude my man would be out the door.  but im assuming ur wifey aint all that and a bag of chipz.  so of course it might make u all horny right right!  then i get u on that.  other than that in my case nahh i love my man.  and it would break my heart.

Answer 13

Generally it's a terrible thing to find out and it usually shatters the world of the cheated-on spouse.

However there are some men who actually get off on the thought (or sight) of their wife/girlfriend sleeping with other men.

That's why those swingers clubs and internet 'dating' sites have lots of people into partner swapping and group s*x.

I still think its weird and disgusting, but humans are complicated. . .

Answer 14

haha, yeah... makes you live on the edge of disease ville.

Answer 15

h**l no, i just found out that my wife was cheating on me and man its a completely turn off. obviously will divorce soon and it did not turn me on, dude you re a freak, but if it turns you on, then introduce me to your wife, ill do whatever you want with her, maybe that will turn you on.

Answer 16

h**l no.

I would beat the h**l out of the guy then leave my spouse.

S***e dude, what kind of question is that!!

Answer 17

Yes & no, cause u find out & know what they are doing when your out, & no cause it breaks your heart.

Answer 18

No. It would be a terrible situation to deal with.

Answer 19

i am always devastated. nothing cool about it.

Answer 20

ahhh... No, I would be pist. Unless I gave him the ok... but I doubt I would do that.

Answer 21

uhm noo. it's a major turn-off.

Answer 22

i guess getting an std or maybe aids would be something to desire, you're a sicko, why don't you just go sleep with someone with a virus why waste time with somebody else pleasuring, go get some of your own. this is just nasty.

Answer 23

Only if it was a hot chick, and they were just warming each other up for you to be the main attraction...

Even then, not so cool...

So, I'd go with no...

Answer 24

I would be relieved.  Then I could get him to, once and for all, realize that I am not joking when I want a divorce and he'd go be happy with someone else!

I don't want the dude to suffer, but d**n, I'm tired of this marriage!

Answer 25

Any kind of distraction is never cool.  

Answer 26

It sounds like you can mend a broken heart.  Animals can't sign marriage licenses, or promise to be faithful until death do us part......Have a healthy and happy leap year!

Answer 27

Heck no. I don't like to share. If he wants someone else then he ought to be man enough to tell me.

Answer 28

Usually when a person finds out that their spouse is cheating they feel undesirable and insulted - their partner had to look elsewhere for sexual satisfaction.  They also feel hurt that their spouse doesn't want them anymore.  So, no, I don't think someone would find it cool.  It's not a matter of the cheater being more desirable because he/she is having s*x with someone else.  

Answer 29

I don't wanna know

If you're playing me - Keep it on the low.

'cause my heart can't take it anymore.

and if you're creepin please don't let it show.

Oh baby, I don't want to know

Answer 30

Been there. Not cool.  Disgusting.  Hurtful. He was out the door in a heartbeat.

Answer 31

I can kinda see your thinking but there would be way too many hurt feelings to step back and think "wow that's kinda s**y" If you're married, you're expecting fidelity and trust