I am getting married in December. And it will be a secret ceremony in my home town. Just ME and my PARTNER.
I plan on breaking the news to my family a day later by sending "just married" notices saying "mr craig brown" and "miss catherine garner" were joined in marriage at a secret ceremony that took place on Saturday 20th December at 3.45pm. Please join them for a celebration dinner at The Oaks, norwich on saturday 2nd january at 7pm"
I will also give each person a framed photo of us on our wedding day for christmas and we will pay for everybody's meal.
ALL I WISH TO KNOW IS: Can you think of any other nice, creative ideas to make the whole event more special?
People seem unable to answer this question without doubting me plans and telling me what my family (who they know nothing about) will think. I have very very good reason for not inviting my family, they are intefering and will not let me do anything my way. They are ciritical to the point of making me call of my engagement previously so I did not have to deal with constant phone calls. There is no other way around it. Even if I call a day before and say "we are marrying tomorrow" I will be faced with constant criticism. I should not have to justify this. It is what I wish to do, and if it makes me truly happy that should be enough.
ALL I WISH TO KNOW IS: Can you think of any other nice, creative ideas to make the whole event more special?
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