Would it be rude to not offer my bathroom to guests in my home?

Question

those who are over for just a few hours

Answer 1

tell them that u dont want them to do their busyness in the shower or in the sink... that kinda stuff

Answer 2

It is very rude.  What would you think if you were at someone else's house and couldn't use their bathroom?

Answer 3

If it's the only one in the home, yes.

Answer 4

If you value their friendship let them use it.  If you are afraid your friends are going to pee on the floor then you need new friends.

Answer 5

"your mother has a fit when someone uses the bathroom." Your mom has problems and needs help. This has to be affecting your children. Think of them. Are you going to let your mothers mental issues cause your own children from ever having friends over.

Any guest in your home should be allowed to use the bathroom. If they are there 5 minutes or 5 hours.  

Answer 6

Of course it is..

why does one keep the bathroom really clean?for the guests of course, the family could care less!

Answer 7

I would offer my best bathroom.  

Answer 8

Yes, it would be very rude.  Anyone who you invite into your house should also be offered bathroom access.  You don't have to be in their face with it, as in, "Come on in and use the bathroom" upon arrival, but if they are there and suddenly have to "go," what are you going to do, tell them told hold it until they get home?

Answer 9

What kind of question is this?  Of course it's rude to not let them use your bathroom...you kiddin me?  What are you gonna make them do?  Go to the gas station down the street?

Answer 10

if you don't want people to use your bathroom, then don't invite them to your house!

it's like telling them to go to a swimming pool but no swimming allowed! because the swimming pool is clean and you want the swimming pool to stay clean.

Answer 11

Where do you expect them to go? In the garden? in a bucket? If you want them to stay your friends then it would be rude and very wierd for you to send them elsewhere if they needed the toilet.

Answer 12

Yes it is rude not to let anyone use your bathroom if they are visiting.

Even if you are the only one to use the bathroom,it will not stay clean forever.Anyways you have kids,of course it will not stay clean. You constantly have to clean the toilet,clean the sink,the floor and keep everything disinfected

As for your mother,it is not her house,so she has no say in who uses the bathroom. And with you having children,how would you feel if they went to one of your friends house and they could not use the bathroom?

Answer 13

ummm hello!  what if someone has an emergency??  some people are so selfish!  glad i'm not coming over to your house!

Answer 14

Sorry to hear your mother has epileptic fits... but that's no reason to deny guests the washroom.. They only use the toilet and I am sure they can do that without making a mess. A few hours.. 5 hours.. what if you were on a plane and the stewardess served drinks and food and then said.. sorry but we want to keep our toilets clean therefore we have locked them.. you will be able to use toilets at your destination airport in 5 hours from now.. I am sure I would never use that airline again and I would never visit someone so rude who denied me access to the toilet.. I would not stay.... I would say hello in the street but I definitely would refuse an invitation to such an inhospitable house!

Answer 15

Extremely rude, I would suggest not having people come over then.

Answer 16

If it's the only one in your house, then yes. It will be very rude to not let them use it. But if you have more than one, then there's no problem. I know that feeling. My mom is like that.... All sparkly and clean...

You can just politely tell them that they should keep it clean too when your guests use it...

Hope that helped...^_^

Answer 17

Yes it would be very rude. If someone has to use the bathroom, let them use it, what's the big deal? Is it dirty? Clean it up! If something is broken, then fix it or if it's not fixable, then mention that to your guests as they are walking in to give them the "heads up" ahead of time.

Answer 18

yep rude but you knew that.

tell your mother to shut up and that you will clean up after  your friends

some people have no class

Answer 19

well.....! of course it it would be !!!!!  

Answer 20

It would be very rude to not let people use your bathroom, simple because it is clean, and you think they will dirty it.  Come on, if it was that time of the month, and your host told you you couldn't use her bathroom, how would you feel?

Answer 21

How would you feel if you were at someone house and needed to go but they said..."It's clean and I want it to stay clean."???

All due respect to your mother but if you are making the house payments then as a 30 year old you can allow anybody to use the bathroom.