Would it be stupid to...?

Question

enter a relationship KNOWING that it wouldn't work out?

Would it be stupid to give it a try? Or would it be time wasted?

Answer 1

if you know it wont work for sure then yes it's a waste of time, but I'm assuming your crystal ball stopped working when mine did ... so give it a shot, you never know  

Answer 2

well, it depends on what you're looking for.

If you just want to have fun for a while and see how it goes, go for it. But if your looking for a long term kind of thing, or someone you could spend your life with, I wouldn't do it, even if it would be a lot of fun, you might miss out on someone else who could come along at anytime.

Answer 3

Nah, it won't be time wasted, it will just be an experience just like anything else.

Besides, who knows, maybe it could work out?

If you really like him, than you are going to try to make  to make the relationship work out.

Answer 4

No, its never stupid to give it a try. you cant be completly sure its not gunna work out if you havent tried it yet!  

Answer 5

It depends on what you want. If you understand that it will never be more than a little fling and you're OK with that, go for it. If you're always going to hope that it turns in to something more, stay away. You would only be setting yourself up to be disappointed.

Answer 6

its not stupid to try, but its stupid to stay in it once you know its not gonna work. but u never really know unless u try.

Answer 7

If you KNOW it's not gonna work out, then yes, it's stupid... Don't brake anyone's heart because eventually it will come back on you...

Answer 8

what you got to loose.nevermind.lol.but sure give it a try.

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Answer 9

reationship knowing that it wouldnt work out? keep her as a friend and if you guys think you got closer, blah blah blah. And eventually think it'll wrk than start a relationship. friends dont waste time. girl friends do! hehe

Answer 10

Well, I believe you learn from your mistakes. I think possibly that if you tried to make it work, it just might!

Good luck!

Answer 11

You'll never know until you try, and unless you can improve your attitude about it, it probably will fail. Have some faith! And the only time wasted will be your weeks of regret for not giving it a chance.

Answer 12

Depends on the reasons you're so sure it son't work out.  If he's married, then NO... DOn't put yourself through the trouble.

If he's involved with another woman, has a girlfriend, then don't put yourself through it.  

If he's controlling, jealous or possessive, then don't put yourself through it.  

If you and he don't have the same interest or likes, then don't put yourself through it.  

There has to be a reason you feel this way and only you know the truth behind it, so follow your own gutt instinct and do what you already know in your heart that you should do.

If you want to give it a try simply for the sake of not wanting to beat yourself up for not trying harder, then go for it, but just don't move too fast.  Take things extremely slower than usual.

Answer 13

Well if you like being with this person than go for it

if you enjoyed the time you did have together than it wasnt wasted.

Answer 14

It would be helpful if you gave some reasons why you think it wouldn't work out.  I'll check back later and give you an opinion if you would like to do that.

Answer 15

def. give it a try..

if it doesnt work out, then it doesnt work out..

but u never know....

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Answer 16

wasted do my

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Answer 17

Why waste your time. I mean you could take a chance I mean who knows but at the same time if you know then save time and try to find someone else. I dont know what kind of answer you want, this is something you need to make up your own mind on.

Answer 18

You could try it out, and if it doesnt work out at least you wouldnt have to wonder 'would it have worked?'

good luck!

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Answer 19

Some people date to get married.

Others date because they want to have fun and learn/try something new.

It isn't a waste of time if it doesn't work out, but you learn something about yourself.  

Answer 20

its worth a try just don't do anything you'll regret and guard your heart

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Answer 21

no one really knows for sure if a relationship is going to work all you can do is give it a shot and if it works it works  if dont doesnt then it doesnt...give it a try wat could it hurt..=]]

Answer 22

how do you know that it wouldnt work? your just setting yourself up for failiure! lol. give this guy a go it might work amazingly you never know and even if it doesnt u can have fun in the meantime :)

good luck x

Answer 23

nothing ventured nothing gained

Answer 24

Dating is like practice so you can chose the right people for you in the future.

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Answer 25

Well you cannot say it won't work unless you try it. It also depends on your reason behind thinking it wont work.

Answer 26

you can never be sure completely that it will not work out, also, most people date knowing it will not work out, think about it, high school dating......it never works out.

Answer 27

if your not 100 sure it wont work then give it a try if you are 100% sure it wont work then dont waste your time make the relationship a friendship instead you can never have to many friends

Answer 28

you dont really know ..you only think you know nothing is guaranteed in life

Answer 29

no!

just give it a try if it doenst work to bad...& if it does well better!

good luck!

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Answer 30

trust me hun nearly every teenage relationship doesn't work out in the end so why don't you give it a shot- your'e bound to learn something from the relationship  

Answer 31

If it makes you happy, than do it. If it doesn't, than don't.