Would it be weird for a married woman to be flirting with me?

Question

I worked with this woman for a little while (about 7 months). Anyway, during that time she would always touch me (hair, hand, arm, shoulders, earrings/necklace, etc...), compliment me, tell me that missed me, she even gave me this little sticker before that said "you are wonderful" for no reason. As she gave it to me she jokes and goes "Here, don't say I never gave you nothin, hehe". I said "thanks" and she goes "well, you are wonderful" as she was looking at the floor. She came in one day and said she wanted to give me her cell. I said "why?" Lol. She looked almost shocked or something and said "just cause". She said I could call her any time, day or night. When I quit, she goes "Give me your address...So I can send ya a christmas card, hehe". She added that last part really fast, like she was almost covering something up. She would stare at me sometimes with a dreamy smile or gaze on her face. When she saw that I saw her, she would wave to me and continue to smile. She would also gaze in my eyes sometimes and tell me personal info about her and her family and stuff. One time I was talking to her, and she just randomlu arched her head/neck back and started rubbing her fingers down her throat/neck.

What has me really puzzled is that sometimes she would talk to me about how much she loves her husband or she would tell me stories about him. But when she did this, sometimes she would get flustered or seemed confused or something. She would start pacing back and forth or almost in circles really fast like she was looking for something. She wouldn't even look up at me when she did that sometimes. She would give me nicknames and put her head real close to mine, whisper in my ear, say how things reminded her of me, and she would remember things about me. And if she would joke around with someone, she would look back at me. Onetime I was going to go somewhere and she goes "Oh, you're gonna be up in my neck of the woods".

Was all this my imagination, or do you think she liked me? She hasn't tried to contact me or anything. Plus, she's much older than me. And she has 2 grown children.

Sorry for this being so long. Thanks!

Answer 1

Well it sounds like she's reached that point in her life where she's at her sexual peak. Women hit that stage of their life anywhere from their mid-30s to late 40s. She obviously has the hots for you and is very turned on by you. All of the touching and offering up information about her is her way of testing to see if you'd are interested in her. If she wasn't married I'd tell ya to have a go with her because older women have lots to teach and they're insatiable in the bedroom. But because she is married I would keep her at arms length and let her know that you consider her a great friend. If she does try to make any advances you need to let her know that you're not comfortable helping her engage in extramarital affairs.

Answer 2

ABSOLUTELY. She has problems, either psychological or marital. She shouldn't be touching you, flirting with you among all the things she did. It's very inappropriate. You can imagine what her husband would think if he would of caught her behaving this way.

I'm sure she did this because she found you cute, but don't let this exite you. She sounds like trouble. Don't keep in touch.

Answer 3

This lady is a witch, she likes attention and shouldn't be messing around with you.  Stay away from her she's only going to bring you problems.  Tell her that she's married, regardless if she's doing good with her husband or not, shouldn't be so touchy and feely with you.  What if her husband were to find out, he will come out to look for you.