Would it be wrong to visit my son's father and not take him?

Question

I really wanna go visit my ex who just happens to be my son's father. I just want s*x basically but don't really feel like taking my 1yr old. would that be wrong of me to do that?

Answer 1

Isn't that how you got in this situation? Try using your brain, not your crotch, you have a kid now. Playtime's over.

Answer 2

yes, sexual immorality is a sin

i know i sin too, but you asked a question and i answered it spiritually.  

make him respect you.

Answer 3

I agree w/ the previous person.  Get a vibrator.  Don't put your "needs" in front of your child's.

Answer 4

Sorry i dont agree with you, so you want to go have s*x with your ex, where by some percentage you could get pregnant again, so you wouldnt take your second child to see him either. I would rethink your morals. Your child no matter how old can benefit from spending any extra amounts of child with his father.

Answer 5

why do you keep asking this? yes, it would be wrong.

Answer 6

Your really putting your kids needs in front of your own. Get a vibrator!

Answer 7

He is your ex for a reason. I am sorry, but this is so wrong on so many levels. Can't you control your hormones. Grow up. I can see why your marriage failed.  

Answer 8

Hey no problem, you got knocked up the first time, let’s go for a second and see what happens?

He’s good enough to f**k, good enough to father your children, but not good enough to carry a relationship with? Interesting that you still attempt to go for round 2 without thinking of how it could affect your child’s life….you don’t think that’d be confusing for him? To see you with Daddy? But not with Daddy? With Daddy? Then split again?

I think if you’re going over to s***w the guy, leave your kid at home. What kind of a mother would bring their child along while they have s*x? A Great mother would avoid the s*x altogether on her child’s time at least, but take your son to visit Daddy anyways.

Answer 9

Forgetting the kid's even involved, you shouldn't go visit your ex for s*x anyway. You'll never be able to move on and find a new, healthy relationship if you keep going back to the old one.