Ok, here is the story. About 15 years ago, I fell in love with someone that was 3 years younger than me. I was 22 and he was 19. We were together about 2 years and planned to get married, but shortly after he turned 21, he decided he wanted to be single again and we broke it off.
Well, I am now 38 and he is 35, and about 6 months ago I sent him an email via Classmates and we have been talking just about daily ever since. He is married with 2 kids and I am in the middle of getting a divorce and I also have 2 kids. We also now live in different states.
After talking for about a month, he told me that not marrying me was the biggest mistake of his life. That he has always loved me. Well, to say I was shocked is an understatement. I still love him too, for the man I remember him to be and the man that he has become.
He has said that he is glad that I have forgiven him for hurting me like he did and I told him that I understand. He was young and stupid.
Well, we both really want to have a life together, but don't see how we can right now. I can't leave where I live without giving up custody of my kids (it's in the divorce decree), which is something I can't do. My kids need me. He also doesn't want to loose being able to see his kids all the time, which would happen if he moved to where I live.
We have decided not to see one another because he doesn't want to cheat on his wife and I respect that. So we have decided to just remain a bit more than just friends and continue to talk on the computer and occasionally on the phone. Hoping that someday we can be together.
Would just like to hear what other people think of our situation and listen to some advice.
Thanks to all who respond.
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