Would like your help with a relationship?

Question

I met a girl a little over a week ago, and we have been great friends, we talk every day, text, see each other, she brought me some stuff from the store she works at, i gave her something from the store i work at, everything seems happy joyful, so i figure come friday the good thing to do would be to ask her out, so i asked her if she would like to hang on friday, she said "Definitly", so come friday she doesnt text me until like 930pm, and grant it i am pissed because we made plans, but she told me she was tired and that her mom was coming home, whatever. I was really mad. i knew this was bs, everyday she talks to me, texts me until midnight, all of this c**p that shows me shes interested, but then this?> well what the heck? so she continues to text me and laugh and talk about stuff, then come today i asked her if she wants to go get something to eat, she tells me she would but she made plans. Whats her deal? Does she simply want to be aquantinces? if so- why does she continue to text me 100 times a day from early in the morning to late at night. what is this all about?

Answer 1

i think your pushing her a little too much. try to let her come to you. maybe she just feels embarrassed to hang out with you because its only been a week. It seems shes really into you but I would just give her time.

hope it all goes as you like it !  

:P

Answer 2

I have this friend who was in love with this girl.  She acted like she really liked him and she would flirt with him.  He finally asked her out and she said that she didn't want to.  he asked her like 5 times after that after she texted him and talked to him online.  When they finally went out she broke up with him for some bogus reason.  Anyway because he worried about her for months and then the stress from the breakup caused him to start goingn to therapy.  The lesson of this story is don't obsess over this one girl.  If it's going to happen then it's going to happen.  Don't think about it too much.