Would someone please give me some advice? I'm puzzled?

Question

Ok, to be warned, this is quite personal. I'm 20 and my ex is 19. It has been 11 days since we broke up, and there wasn't a single day, a single moment that went by w/out thinking about her. There's still some love left between us. I wrote her a letter after the fourth day but haven't received any phone call from her. I am now on my vacation and still have two days left. Even on vacation the thought of her still constantly running thru my head. I have this huge urge of calling her. I just miss her so so much. However, my pride is holding me back from doing it. If any of you been thru this, what do you think I should do? Should I give her a call and see?

Answer 1

Take a leap of faith. call her. You may not like what you hear, but you never know, you might. Don't spend your time wating on her to call or talk to you, talk to her first. Tell her how you feel. Maybe she will still feel the same.  

Answer 2

call the girl! your young, you might regret it if you never call her back..

Answer 3

CALL HER!!!

Answer 4

that guy up there is a jerk!!

im sure things will get easier with time.

if it was meant to be, youd be together still. just let time do its thing!

Answer 5

Call her.

Answer 6

1st of all who broke up with who and why? If it was a fight and you both ended it you should call her. If she left you she may not want to be with you anymore how ever you still need to call her. if you left her she may be hurting again call her. the only way to make this better is to talk she may not of wrote you back if she is hurt. You need to tell her how you feel and ask her to do the same. Then you can go from there. When you call her tell her you didn't realizee how much she meant to you un tell she was gone tell her you miss her and your going to do what it takes to make things right tell her you have been thinking about her girls love that. they like to feel special and important like they mean somethingg to you. Bring her some flowers girls love flowers this will help heal her wounds.

Answer 7

Call her and tell her how you feel. It can go one of a few ways:

a) She'll tell you she feels the same and you can get crackin on fixing things.

b) She'll tell you she wants time apart and you can rest easy knowing that you've followed up as best u can and given her the opportunity to fix things if she wanted that.

c) Do nothing about it and remain in constant wonder, thought and anxiety over not knowing if you've missed this one.

OR you could follow my other less advisable options

a) You could call her and tell her how you feel - if she doesnt feel the same way, explore the wonderful world of stalking - Nothing says "I love you!" like following a girl everywhere she goes - because you're only keeping her safe right? :D

b) **** her best friend - it never fails to show that streak of jelousy you thought she diddnt have in her anymore and as a bonus you get to bask in the pleasure of watching them turn on eachother :D

c) Listen to those leprechauns - Burn her house down! Burn it!

Answer 8

Pride don't help it only hurt,call what you got to loose.

Answer 9

I know how u feel....its hard but youll get through it. She hasnt called u so she obviously is moving on just let her go .  

Answer 10

if u r a boy **** off and let me date ur x, but girls are always welcome to my bed

Answer 11

loser

Answer 12

Sounds to me like your in love with this girl.  If you don't want to straight up call her than try emailing her first.  Girls like to know how a guy feels bout her.  So just simply tell her.  Ur pride could possibly take a hit, but isn't she worth it?

Answer 13

definitely call her dude

Answer 14

I think it depends on what you broke up over.  If it was in the heat of a fight or over something generally that is not a terrible dealbreaker, suck it up and call her.  Otherwise you're just gonna keep wondering whether you could have made it work.

Answer 15

Dont call her, go to her house, and directly tell her how you feel, and how this is affecting you. Bring it from your heart. If she doesnt understand, then she doesnt deserve you.