Would someone please help me with this? I don't know what to do...?

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krash1980 is a member of Answers Community. When I was in the Music>Rock&Pop category, she blasted me for saying that my favourite rock group is Bon Jovi. So I blocked her from sending me any more answers. Here's the problem. She had another member(shelivade) e-mail me and this is the response I got - in it's entirety:

From: shelivade

Subject: Re: Hey

Message: krash1980: "Bon Jovi are the QUEENS of 2nd Wave late 80's Pop Metal, Bon Jovi would suck a thousand black c***s to give Justin Timberlake a bubble bath! I do enjoy being an intersexual, at least I am an individual, it's better than a Worthless **** who listens to trendy rock music with the rest of the middle aged underdeveloped, mindless, crowd screaming women who flock to his shows! Please do society a favor and walk off of a very tall cliff, bring your Bon Jovi albums with you. I will always get the final word! I hope your role model gets assassinated!"

Is it just me, or would anyone else reading this feel violated! I reported this person as an abuser, but she has gotten a way around it somehow. She is still a member. Now I'm very concerned about this person. I say "person" because she is "intersexual" (I read it in her profile). This means: an individual displaying sexual characteristics of both male and female. So I don't know whether to call it a she or a he. In the nasty part of my brain, I wish I could tell her she can literally go f*** herself, LOL. But I'm not like that. I really believe this person is seriously mentally ill, by how she wrote the above message. I don't want any more nasty messages from anyone and I can't turn off my e-mail because I've already told some people in this category that I'd like to help them and they can e-mail me. Would someone please help me with this? And please be kind with genuine answers, not any more sarcasm or attitude. I'm really upset about this...

Answer 1

anytime you see a email from her don't read it, just delete it, and don't reply to anything they say.

they're just stupid idiots who have to be rude to other people to feel good about themselves; i know everyone says that, but its true.

she/he isn't mentally ill, just trying to get to you

ignore itt. your better then them:D

Answer 2

I know it sounds totally cliche for me to say this (my parents received multiple eye rolls as retaliation!), however, I do believe in this case it will be best to just ignore the, um, individual? It seems they are a little unstable and a response to their issues may just provoke further craziness! To become so completely aggravated over a persons opinion on music tastes is absurd, its best to let them be and  hope they eventually back off. If not, maybe I suggest you create a new account and send an email to all of your contacts making them aware of this - only do this though if the person continues to harass you. You are completely right to feel violated, their comments were by no means warranted. Good luck and I hope this helped. p.s Bon Jovi is God ;)

Answer 3

look music choice is personal preference if someone wants to ***** and moan about how your music preference is different than theirs they can deal with it

Answer 4

Hey I liked them (Bon Jovi) too don't listen to them they are just some punk *** kids that don't have anything better to do than to stir sh**