I am getting married in late November 2008 and am finalising the vast majority of details for the big day. At the moment, there is one hiccup: the father-daughter dance. I will be dancing this with my uncle, who has played a significant role in my life following my father's death when I was a young girl. He has become a father figure to me and I thought it only appropriate I share this very special moment with him. I have choosen the Stevie Wonder song 'Isn't She Lovely', because it's one he sang to me as a newborn and therefore has sentimental value to us both. Recently, I suggested that I have two father-daughter dances, the other being with his partner (he is g*y), as he too has played a significant role in my upbringing and has been there for me ever since my father's death. I cannot see any problem with this, but a few members of my family think this is most innappropriate and have frowned upon it. It makes me so uncomfortable because I truly want to dance with both men, and both have always refered to me as "their little girl". My mother, prior to her death, encouraged me to go ahead with this idea, regardless of what others may think, but I do not wish for this special and momentous moment to result in any form of distress of uncomfortableness to my uncle's partner. However, it is my big day, and my fiancee's family fully approves of my decision. Would it be appropriate to have 2 dances, one with my uncle, the other with his partner?
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