Would this be considered flirting or is he just being a nice friendly guy?

Question

My husband is 43,im 39 and we have been happily married 17 yrs...He has been at the same job for almost 12 yrs and is always joking around with the women there and helps them out with stuff..He is also friends with the men too..He is very popular there and i have been there a few times and everybody knows we are happily married and the few times i have been there the ladies all say he says nothing but good things about me..The joking around is nothing ever sexual cause he is not the kind of guy that would talk to other women like that..

Answer 1

he is just being friendly

you really have nothing to worry about

if every1 knows that you 2 are married dosnt that tell you somthin

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Answer 2

From everything you described--your husband is NOT being flirty, just friendly. I'm a single female and friends with a lot of guys at work who are married.

The women there are letting you know that they reserve any sexual talk because "he is not the kind of guy that would talk to other women like that."

I think you are feeling insecure, if you have had such a happy marriage for 17 years, his friendship with female co-workers would not bother you.

Answer 3

I think he's just a friendly guy.  He may be a bit natually flirty, but I don't he's raised any red flags...yet.

If you notice him spending a little more time with one particular female...then I'd keep a little closer eye on him.  Don't accuse him of anything, because if there is something going on, he'll become more discreet about it...and if there's nothing going on...then you look jealous and insecure.

Just be observant, but from the sound of it...he's just a nice guy that everyone likes to talk to.

Answer 4

obviously-he's nice and friendly and not flirting going by what youve written of him. In many such cases a jealous accusation of flirting may actually turn him into one