Would this bother you if this was your boyfriend????

Question

If you went on your boyfriends facebook and you looked on there wall and saw that they have been taking to the same girl alot and she put "xox" at the end of some of her wall posts would you be upset?

Would it bother you or am I just overeacting???

Answer 1

I'd ask him. I don't think its anything, read past conversations maybe.

Answer 2

I wouldn't be upset, I'd just assume that the girl was an air head who may or may not have a crush on him.

X's and O's eh? That's pretty childish.

Answer 3

Id ask him about her probably, but i wouldnt be too worried about it at first.

If after a while, it keeps up, and he's flirting back, yeah id start to get upset

Answer 4

I wouldn't really be bothered by it.

Because I know some girls that put "xoxo" at the end of everything they send, no matter who they're sending it to.

Don't freak out about it, trust your boyfriend. That's the best way to go.

Answer 5

you are obviously upset about this and if thats true, you need to ask him about it. if he cares about you, he will understand that you are just curious. its very important to not accuse him of anything because it really might be nothing. bottom line, if something upsets you, you need to maturely let him know how you feel. dont keep it bottled inside because then it will come out later and it will be a bigger deal.

if i were you, i would be curious but i wouldnt be mad. you have a right to ask him but you dont have the right to accuse him of anything. communicate how you feel and youll get your answer.

Answer 6

I wouldn't like that the girl was doing it but the most I'd do about it is just ask him out of curiosity.  I'd be more concerned on how my guy reacted to it.  Talk to him if it really bothers you though.

Answer 7

idk that would bother me a little but i would definately bring it up with him

Answer 8

your not overreacting you just dont want to lose him. but if you think he is the type of guy that would do that, and its normal you have nothing to worry about. but if you think he is starting to be attracted to them . then you have something to worry about