Would this marriage last?

Question

Ladies, please honest answers.

If you got married to a man on a rebound right after you broke up with your bf of 4 years (a few months later) and still were completely in love with your ex when you got married, do you think you would just be able to be happy in your marriage or always have doubts?

You realize the reality is that you are married, but still are in love with your ex and think about him all the time. You broke up with him only bcs. he was stalling to get married. Besides that, you were happy and had no problems. Your husband treats you great, but your heart is still with the other guy. how will this marriage work? would you be able to be happy or will u always question this and this doom your marriage?

Answer 1

Get out now before you are in too deep with children etc.  Even if you never get back with your ex it is not fair on your current husband.

I could put you on to woman rght now who did this exact thing over 30 years ago and has live her entire life as a lie.

She finally contacted her real love at the age of 50.  Sounds crazy but its true.

So your ex didn't want to get married, so what?  You wanted to get married and did and look at your situation now.

Answer 2

You need to be honest and kind to your husband and tell him that you don't love him and that you are still in love with your ex. This situation is neither fair to him or to yourself. You need to let your husband go so that he can meet someone who can really love him.

Answer 3

  That's really unfair to the current husband. I would need to get out or find a way to love my current husband in a way he deserved.

Answer 4

Communication will make or break this relationship  

Answer 5

You had absolutely no business getting married and you owe it to your husband to cut him loose and let him find a real woman to marry.