Would u give up your kids for your happiness and peace? or rather have them and not have peace?

Question

and as a parent do u think it's a choice to take of your kids or a must ?

Answer 1

Once you have a child, you are responsible for that child and should do your very best to take care of that child.  Yes, one must take care of their child.  They did not have the choice the parent had whether or not to have s*x and make a baby.  Once you make that choice, you've got a duty.  You are morally obligated to care for that baby regardless of your own happiness.

Having kids means being selfless.  

If you can't do that, you shouldn't be having s*x and making babies.

Answer 2

I would never give up my kids, under any circumstance.

To answer the second question, you became responsible for the childrens lives when you had them.  It is not a CHOICE at all.  You made the choice on conception and to have the kid, that is when your choices end.

Answer 3

why have kids in the first place if it is not the happiness you seek?

Answer 4

If you have a child that is your responsibility you take care of it and raise it right Or you never should have had them in the first place.  

My baby is not even born yet and I could never imagine giving her up.  I know it will be hard but I also know that she will be my happiness.

Answer 5

I would not give up my kids for anything, like I think any good parent would agree. If you are not happy being a parent, why did you have kids?

They deserve to have the best of you and in return you will get the best of them.

Suck it up! You are a parent and will have some peace and quiet when they move out.

Answer 6

I love my daughter and i have happiness and peace more now than i ever did so no i wouldnt give up my daughter she wins hands down over everything.

Answer 7

Interesting.  I chose to have my kids and in that choice, I accepted the responsibility that came with having them...including the chaos, sleepless nights, getting vomited on, 7th grade Math and back talking eye rolls.  But you know what, I never felt more happy or more peaceful then I do now that I have them.

Answer 8

If you're doing your job as a parent you should have happiness 99.999% of the time and peace about 50% of the time.  I'll take those odds and keep my kid.

Answer 9

To a mom, there is no such thing as happiness and peace without her children!

Answer 10

I dont think I could find peace and happiness if I gave up my kids.

Answer 11

I think that my kids are both my chaos and disorder,as well as my peace and happiness. I love my kids more then life and at times it's because of them that I have gotten trough tough times. On the same note they sometimes  drive me nuts!! I may wonder what a week or weekend might be like without them but never a life without them. peace is when they tell me that they love me

Answer 12

When I am with my kids and am happy and peacful, so why would I give them up for my happiness and peace when when I'm with them, that's what I have?

Answer 13

Unfortunately this is a very possible scenario for people who have a child who may be severely disabled either physically, mentally or both. under extreme circumstances where having to put your child in a "home" might be an only option for self sanity ( & the childs well being) then I dont think the stones should be thrown so brutally

Answer 14

You make it sound like it is a one or the other type of decision.  I understand that some people wouldn't feel happy or at peace when there are kids around.  But for those of us who choose to have families, we (whether you believe it or not) are very very happy and wouldn't have it any other way.

Answer 15

h**l no. I love my kids and no matter how tired I get or how much they annoy me sometimes I would never give them up. My life is full of joy now that I have them. I couldn't imagine life without them. Being a parent is the greatest job I could ever have and the most rewarding.

Answer 16

As a MoM of a very spoiled teenager,

I want my peace and happiness.

She gets to hang out with her friends. I work full time.

;-( She wants $300.00 for school clothes, and supplies.

For this Fall.

:>[

Answer 17

im selfish, id keep them over anything, no matter what it was. sorry world

Answer 18

My kids ARE what brings happiness!  I couldn't imagine my life without them!

Answer 19

How could any parent find happiness or peace without their child with them?  I don't understand the question.