Would u help this person out?

Question

im an american working overseas as an english teacher.about 3 weeks before my contract ended, a new teacher was brought in. i hit it off with her very well. nor romance or anything just a good person. i pretty much teach her how to survive the job and get by in the country.

my contract ends...i go home yet keep in touch with her thru calls, emails and even send her things in the mail (gifts for students etc) to help her out and send a positive impression for her students. (i sent gifts out of kindness as well as her asking me to send things also. )

fast forward to 5 months later. i come back to the same country, then she decides to break her contract and go home for personal issues (i.e. getting back with ex husband). she gets back home and hardly contacts me.h**l, its like she forgot i even helped her when i was gone and she was there.

anyways, about a year later she apologizes for not keeping in touch and seems like she expects everything to be ok.

a few more months pass without saying a word to each other...then i IM her and it seems like nothing has changed and we are are talking terms again.

she sends me an offline IM the next day asking if she can use me as a reference (shes applying for police academy) and wants me to lie and say i was her supervisor and she was a good worker (which she was). then types that i should do it because maybe 'one day you'll need my help'

would u help her? or tell her whats bothering u? or tell her to fly her kite somewhere else?

Answer 1

She can go pound sand.

Answer 2

in this case i would lie because nobody is really going to look you up

it's only the police force

but she's a little ***** don't keep in touch with her she's using you

i wouldn't do it actually i change my mind lol

Answer 3

ahmed0m0hamed0

Answer 4

I would help her.  You never know what might happen tomorrow.

Good Luck.

Answer 5

i am a criminal i sell drugs and take drugs and i have out run the police putting other ppl lives in danger but unlike most other criminals i meet who get caught they get mad because the police caught them myself on the other hand know what I'm doing and i know I'm going to get caught i have respect for the honest cops just like i have respect for the ppl who go to church and practiced what  they preach. i know even tho I'm a drug dealer if some one was trying to kill me they would be there to help me.but i know some police who are not honest that break the laws they have sworn to protect and i have no respect for that kind of policemen a honest police men or police woman would not ask you to lie and if you lie for her or she lies then you both have committed your first crime as a police person which is against the law she is  swearing to protect. i have no respect for her at all. tell her to go fly her kite some were else and keep your self respect

Answer 6

I wouldn't lie for her and say you were her supervisor but a coworker. Why can't she ask her supervisor or what ever? She sounds kinda selfish about the friendship. Tell her you won't lie for her but you would be a reference as a coworker ect. and if she gets mad and doesn't understand and doesn't talk to you then you will have your answer to the friendship.

Answer 7

she keeps on communicating because she want you to help her..

if you think after you helped her in the past & she forget you easily..

then, why would you do it again? maybe, she's good to for now coz she's asking a favor in return..

falsification of documents is a crime..

don't let her destroy your profession..